What was your friends' reaction when you lost your virginity?

Never told them as soon as it happened, but the fact that I was no longer a virgin was brought up in later conversations.

Exactly.


i don't think it makes you less of a person and I dislike it when people use it to demean women, but it's pretty classless to go back to your guy mates and treat it as if you have just completed this grand conquest.

I just think how insecure must you be to have to go seek validation from your mates after finding someone perfectly willing to share a bed with you.

I just think how insecure must you be to have to go seek validation from your mates after finding someone perfectly willing to share a bed with you.

I've noticed this with guys who aspire to be part of the "lad culture". If you lose your virginity, you're on your way to being a lad.

But yes, I completely agree with you.

the thing is though, if these boys wanted to be lads, then all they have to do is look up the definition of the word and realise that they already are lads, and then maybe they'd be a little more self assured.

I think nowadays lad= sleeps around, sneers at people in relationships, gets drunk all the time.

I'm going to categorise here

White friends- Kept on gasping "No you didn't" again and again.

Asian friends- About a week after I told them we had an assembly on teen pregnancy and they kept on poking me from the back and asked when the baby was due. And they kept on giving me STD leaflets

My Asian friends were actually more curious about how it was. Their parents were pretty strict on that kind of topic so they asked me instead because I was easier to talk to and more open.

Sounds like a brilliant life.

LOOOOL this is exactly my kind of banta.. Gotta love Asian friends

Depends on the guy I guess. I know plenty of guys who would kill to find a girlfriend who understands them. I know a few who find relationships stupid because you only sleep with one person.

I'd say the latter are pathetic. If you want to have ONSs fair enough. But there's no need to slag off those in relationships.



I know right. Love them to pieces for it.

You're Asian...?