Okay so I'm in Year 12 and, as you know, exams are fairly soon. The trouble is my parents are not letting me study and as a result the weeks become very stressful and I cannot get any revision or independent study going.
Instead of studying they're asking me to help them in the garden, which I'm happy to do for an hour or two once in a while. But the thing is, they're asking me to take up 4 full days of the Easter holiday to help them. These 4 days are also on the days I had planned to rest, because it's during the easter weekend. So I'm now left with no rest during the holidays and fewer days of revision.
This is not the first time. During the February half term I had to spend 5 days helping them in the garden, and today I despite having loads of work to do they forced me to spend 6 hours today and are forcing me to do another 6 hours tomorrow. It's interesting to note that my sister, who is of the same ability as me and gets asked to do very little, does significantly better grade wise because she gets the time to study.
I think it's important to note that the time spent helping out isn't the only issue, it's also the use of energy. I am very tired and when I finish helping I cannot do anything in the evenings because I'm even more tired.
My parents don't understand how much work is required to get the grades I'm aiming for, and althoguh I'm on track for mostly As - I do not feel like I'm going to get them because I'm constantly held back. Neither completed A-levels or went university and neither tried particularly hard. So they don't understand the workload, stress and important of these upcoming exams.
It got to the point today that when I was arguing with my dad about it, he said I could not go out and see my friends and said I was a "liar" because he thinks when I'm studying after school I'm not actually studying. He then preceded to call me "selfish" because I'm not wanting to help with his sh*tty garden that will in no way benefit me and is only hindering me from what I can achieve.
What should I do about this? I can't go to the library, because when I last asked to go we had to have an argument and in the end he only let me go there for an hour. I cannot see my friends and do work because I'm grounded (YES 17 AND GROUNDED) as I keep arguing with my dad about it. I feel like if I talk to school about it they'll just ignore me.
It's just become too much, and when I got in after today's six hours I just broke down in the shower.
Before anyone asks, I do chores most days which I'm happy doing because I can't expect to get everything and give nothing back. It's just sh*tty projects like these.