At the beginning of University everyone kind of huddled together to find their safety net and people tended to flock with their flatmates and that was that. I belonged to a really anti social flat, 4/5 of my flatmates don't ever go out and didnt even go out for freshers, as a result they literally have no friends apart from each other and we just don't really get along..
I made friends early on with a cool guy and we went on most nights out together and were pretty inseperable. Gradually he began to fall into the stoner group, I smoked every now and then but I didn't like what it did to me so cut it out, eventually this meant i'd avoid going over just because I didn't like the lethargy it brought about in me. But i'd still see him every other day.
I made friends with a girl who lived downstairs, we'd hang out and facetime and stuff and I eventually introduced the two. He's a very very good looking guy and even though she had a boyfriend she was obsessed with him and eventually I got pushed out of the picture.
It didnt help that I barely turned up to uni because I used to go out so much, I became the kid everyone tells they havent seen for ages etc
As a result its the end of the year and im left with no friends, the guy who I thought was my best friend regularly hangs out with the really controlling obsessed girl and her friends who I introduced him to who i cant stand and when he isn't he's with the stoner group who i also cant stand.
You might wonder why I basically had one good friend, well it was mostly because I don't click with many people and I did with him so I put most of my eggs in that basket.
I tried joining a society three quarters of the way through and it was really frat-like and cliquey and there wasn't much space for me as I was a nobody and didn't understand all the inside jokes and group dynamics.
I'm even moving into a flat next year with 5 additional random people because I have no one to live with and i'm terribly depressed, I don't know what I can do.