I was good friends with someone, we had known each other for about 2-3 years, lost contact and then reconnected last year and became very close in the sense that we spoke all day everyday about absolutely everything for about 6 months, we'd say things like 'I'm ignoring everyone else and only speaking to you' etc etc.
This person has a VERY promiscuous past and has no interest in relationships and so I always knew that I could never love this person more than a friend. However, we did become really close and I saw them as someone really dear to me. Tbf I feel like our friendship was flirty banter and she did make me feel special, though I knew it would never develop into anything and I just couldn't be with someone with a past like hers so I didn't let myself catch feelings.
Okay so she would constantly mention other guys to me and I saw it as such a 'turn off' if that makes sense? Talking about guys she's slept with/guys who are into her, etc just always mentioning guys.
From my perspective I just thought it was really disrespectful to turn our convo into being about other guys ALL THE TIME.
I felt like it ruined great convos and also, I wasn't a gay best friend type to tell all of this to. One minute our convo would be quite flirty like we have a thing but then she'd shut it down by talking about people she's slept with or whatever.
So looking back, I realise and admit it was jealousy on my behalf, I'm just really competitive and it's the way I am I guess. But what are you even supposed to say to any of that?
One night she sent me screenshots of her convo with this boy who basically sends her money on paypal and he had just unblocked her after breaking up with his girlfriend, so in the screenshots he was sad about it and she was like "come back when you're the man I fell in love with" like seriously? Why send me that?
as it was constant I just got tired and bored of it and it got to the point where I completely lost interest and stopped speaking to her