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Dos and Don'ts when it come to texting girls

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Original post by Marshall Taylor
Ugh, why do you still reply then? Jeez, I hate leading conversations - I much prefer it when girls do it.


But if I don't reply it just makes me seem rude or something
Original post by 1secondsofvamps
Don't reply with one word answers or short phrases like "yeah" "I'm sorry" "oh right" because it means the girl will have to find something else to talk about.


Original post by Marshall Taylor
Come on now, that's just being lazy...
Lel I hope she's taking the piss.

Is that whats its come to? Honestly some women are a bit.......

My two cents is to have a laugh with online dating. Be mighty depressing otherwise.
Original post by 1secondsofvamps
But if I don't reply it just makes me seem rude or something


Honesty is a virtue, you should just tell him straight or he's not going to stop.


Original post by trustmeimlying1
Lel I hope she's taking the piss.

Is that whats its come to? Honestly some women are a bit.......

My two cents is to have a laugh with online dating. Be mighty depressing otherwise.


Yeah, I'm disappointed - 2016 and we're still expected to be the host of 21 questions..
Original post by undercxver
What's wrong with cba? 🤔

"Gal" oh myyyyyy.
Girl, gal tis no difference. cba is grand but don't lose your tits on hehehe
Reply 44
Don't text multiple times if I haven't answered for an hour or two. I'll talk when I'm free (and if I'm not wanting to talk to you, spamming me isn't improving your chances). Sounds harsh but it's irritating.

On the positive side, be fun and/or interesting. Either is good. Tell stories, talk about life, the universe and everything. Also dad jokes work on me, but I might be weird. :h:

Finally, reasonable (not perfect) grammar and spelling is helpful. If you use a semicolon you've gone too far.
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Original post by trustmeimlying1
Girl, gal tis no difference. cba is grand but don't lose your tits on hehehe


Grand lmaooo okkk. Each to their own I guess.

Hehe is so retarded no matter who uses it girl or guy.
Original post by WoodyMKC
Don't text "Yeah, texting her now. Seems like a right ****, should have her in bed by the weekend" then text "Oops... so sorry, wrong number, I wasn't walking about you I swear!"


loool she seems like the ****gy sort, question is tho, did you mange to get her in bed by the weekend :K:

edit: didtn realise what the censored word was
Reply 47
On dating sites?

That happens to everyone. They flake because they have too many options.

She might like you, but in like 2 days she'll match with a guy that she fancies more, focus on him and stop responding to you.

I never understood why women put all their eggs in one basket like that, but they're not rational, so who knows.
Reply 48
Original post by Allie4
seriously what is it with guys doing that?! 5 seconds into the conversation and they send me several dick pics that i didn't ask for! ffs we're not men, we don't get turned on by the site of your wrinkly, tiny cocks. in fact if its too small we show it to our friends and have a good laugh!

STOP. SENDING. DICK. PICS. MEN!!! unless she asks for them...


Women do like dick pics, but you gotta have like a pornstar dick. Most guys ofc do not have pornstar dick.
Reply 49
Original post by WoodyMKC
Don't text "Yeah, texting her now. Seems like a right ****, should have her in bed by the weekend" then text "Oops... so sorry, wrong number, I wasn't walking about you I swear!"


New thread.

Text that to a girl you know and she how she reacts.
Reply 50
Don't think about it to much, be yourselfff.
Girls like making boys work for stuff so don't give up if she gives you the cold shoulder.
Stay interesting but not obnoxious.
Reply 51
Original post by Virgil.
Women do like dick pics, but you gotta have like a pornstar dick. Most guys ofc do not have pornstar dick.


We do not like being sent a "last chicken in the shop" photo, even if it's a turkey. :tongue:
Don't be shy.
Don't expect her to text you first every time. I'm not gonna do it all the time it makes me look desperate when I'm not and also gives me the image you guys aren't interested.
DO NOT BOAST. I hate that.
Remain consistent in the amount you text and explain for breaks. If you drop the amount you are texting someone gives the illusion you are not interested.
Try to not drunk text. Its never great trying to understand ' hew yoi foible in rhus today?'
Do attempt to make dates/meet up. No-one wants to be texting for ever and it gets weird after a bit.
Please ask us some questions. 'How was your day?'. Make it seem like you want to know more about us.
No cheesy OTT flirting. ' I could make you smile like a cheshire cat' - legit.
I could go on and on and on...
Send dick pics.
use texting mainly to set up dates and what not -- you don't want to just be some kind of penpal to her. Only text back if she enjoys texting, and even then, don't text as much as her. Vary the time between you reply -- sometimes rather quick, sometimes slow. if she gets annoyed, you don't owe her an apology; you're a busy guy.

Don't continually ask her nonsense like how her day was if you're only dating her for now - that's what friends do.

Keep it funny, banterous etc.

Calibrate with her. If she's texting something small don't give her big answers and whatnot and vice versa

Once you're in a relationship, do whatever you want
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Original post by WoodyMKC
Don't text "Yeah, texting her now. Seems like a right ****, should have her in bed by the weekend" then text "Oops... so sorry, wrong number, I wasn't walking about you I swear!"


are you guilty of this?
Original post by stefano865
Send dick pics.


that's a straight block especially when you thought the guy was actually decent*
Original post by natalie427
Don't be shy.
Don't expect her to text you first every time. I'm not gonna do it all the time it makes me look desperate when I'm not and also gives me the image you guys aren't interested.
DO NOT BOAST. I hate that.
Remain consistent in the amount you text and explain for breaks. If you drop the amount you are texting someone gives the illusion you are not interested.
Try to not drunk text. Its never great trying to understand ' hew yoi foible in rhus today?'
Do attempt to make dates/meet up. No-one wants to be texting for ever and it gets weird after a bit.
Please ask us some questions. 'How was your day?'. Make it seem like you want to know more about us.
No cheesy OTT flirting. ' I could make you smile like a cheshire cat' - legit.
I could go on and on and on...


tell it girl*
Original post by queen-bee
are you guilty of this?


I'm not, as it happens. Believe it or not I'm quite the gentleman, I don't really kiss and tell to my mates :redface:
Also,
mention things we have previously discussed, this is called 'active listening' and is one of the best things a human can use in a conversation to build any relationship.

'How did your job interview go?'
'How was your holiday'
'I remembered you had a driving lesson today, how did it go?'
'What was Italy like, I remember you saying you went?'

Just make sure you don't mention anything you have come across on a stalking session and she hasn't said.....lil creepy.

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