****ing lost it today and possibly broke his mobile phone. Is my anger justified?

Down the loo was a bit much, just confiscating it would have been adequate. Best apologise, try for some make-up sex and a post-coital summit to agree smart phone rules at dinner going forward..

That is way you talk about your feelings so your relationship doesn't tumble and reaches this point.

And sometimes emotions are hard to understand, our own emotions are a pain in the ass. But it's best we clear our head and seek some space.

If it didnt help, take some time apart. Take a break to make him realise your worth and that you arent there to be ignored.

Silent treatment

Guys have a word for "silent treatment". We call it "a bit of peace and quiet"

So you damage his expensive belongings instead Chill yourself, your behaviour was totally unjustified. Everyone gets angry and you had every right to be angry, but how you controlled that anger leaves a LOT to be desired.

He can afford a new one, and he has an icloud so his **** won't disappear or anything, even if the mobile is ruined. It's not like a ruined his car. I know I should've handled it better though.

It's the principle though, you have absolutely no right to destroy his belongings just because he's upset you. I'm not for one second saying I'm a picture of calm at all times and I'm prone to flipping my lid when I'm pissed off and I would have done so if you put my phone down the f***ing toilet but I've never broken someone else' stuff in anger because I have no right.

I don't really have much ****ing worth right now. Not working, constantly lazing around at home like a depressed *****, taking prescription drugs all the time and all that. I've been n a living zombie for like over a year now. That's probably why he treats me like **** ha.

It's the principle though, you have absolutely no right to destroy his belongings just because he's upset you. I'm not for one second saying I'm a picture of calm at all times and I'm prone to flipping my lid when I'm pissed off and I would have done so if you put my phone down the f***ing toilet but I've never broken someone else' stuff in anger because I have no right.

So I made really a really awesome dinner for us today. I really put a lot of effort into it, believe me, I didn't even feel like getting out of bed in the morning, as usual. But I still did. And? And he (my boyfriend) was more interested in his stupid phone, browsing Facebook and ****, while eating. Don't get me wrong I do that a lot too but not when we are having a (kind of) special meal together!
This wasn't the first time either, he's been doing this for the past 2 weeks or so, I've asked him to stop before, too, a number of times. Today I just ****ing lost it, took it away from him, went to the bathroom and threw the damn thing in the toilet. He just called me crazy, no surprise really and I'm here alone now, rotting in our bedroom, feeling a bit guilty, but still secretly hoping that his mobile did not survive.
So? Justified? Complete overreaction? Idk anymore

I don't really have much ****ing worth right now. Not working, constantly lazing around at home like a depressed *****, taking prescription drugs all the time and all that. I've been n a living zombie for like over a year now. That's probably why he treats me like **** ha.

It's the principle though, you have absolutely no right to destroy his belongings just because he's upset you. I'm not for one second saying I'm a picture of calm at all times and I'm prone to flipping my lid when I'm pissed off and I would have done so if you put my phone down the f***ing toilet but I've never broken someone else' stuff in anger because I have no right.

You can't live like that, you have to do something in order to feel better. Have you considered starting working again? Do you have a plan?

I agree with this. It also feeds into a generalised 'crazy woman' behaviour (I'm thinking here of the content of some of your other threads as well) which is going to end up making it harder for you to rationally discuss what's going wrong in this relationship. If you're not careful, he could easily start dismissing any concerns or issues you have as 'you're just a crazy woman ranting'.

I presume you've apologised for what you've done? Have you arranged to have the item you broke repaired or replaced?

Understandable that you are frustrated but my God, throwing his phone down the toilet, really?

You can either:
a) Apologise to him and talk to him about him being anti social
b) have apology sex to make up - http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Apology%20Sex

Have you considered counselling?

No, it's pointless. I just don't want to.

So I made really a really awesome dinner for us today. I really put a lot of effort into it, believe me, I didn't even feel like getting out of bed in the morning, as usual. But I still did. And? And he (my boyfriend) was more interested in his stupid phone, browsing Facebook and ****, while eating. Don't get me wrong I do that a lot too but not when we are having a (kind of) special meal together!
This wasn't the first time either, he's been doing this for the past 2 weeks or so, I've asked him to stop before, too, a number of times. Today I just ****ing lost it, took it away from him, went to the bathroom and threw the damn thing in the toilet. He just called me crazy, no surprise really and I'm here alone now, rotting in our bedroom, feeling a bit guilty, but still secretly hoping that his mobile did not survive.
So? Justified? Complete overreaction? Idk anymore