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He has naked pics of guys in his phone

Why would a straight guy with a long term girlfriend have naked pictures of men on his phone? He jokes about being gay but insists he isn't and also jokes about others being gay too. He makes a lot of long lasting eye contact with other men too. In the past, he has sent nudes to other men except they weren't of himself but instead ones he found on the Internet?

I think he might be bi but I'm not sure. Your thoughts?
Who cares? It's none of your business.
If he is Bi what's the problem?
Reply 3
Does that make you insecure? If he is bi then he's bi. What are you going to do, expose him?
Original post by Snufkin
Who cares? It's none of your business.


It is her business. He’s in a relationship with her and has naked pictures of other guys. That is definitely her business now.
Reply 5
Original post by Snufkin
Who cares? It's none of your business.


Perhaps I should have made my role in this clear in the first post. Basically, his girlfriend had found the things mentioned in my original post when snooping through his phone. She's worried that she doesn't know the real him but can't confront him because she shouldn't have been snooping. She's asked me if I suspected / knew anything as I'm one of his closest friends. Neither of us are sure of what to make of the situation so I asked here.
Reply 6
Original post by UWS
Does that make you insecure? If he is bi then he's bi. What are you going to do, expose him?


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I assume your reply was a joke as no one would suggest something so stupid.
Original post by FloralLuxe
It is her business. He’s in a relationship with her and has naked pictures of other guys. That is definitely her business now.


That's quite an assumption - the OP did not say they were in a relationship with the man in question.

Original post by Anonymous
Perhaps I should have made my role in this clear in the first post. Basically, his girlfriend had found the things mentioned in my original post when snooping through his phone. She's worried that she doesn't know the real him but can't confront him because she shouldn't have been snooping. She's asked me if I suspected / knew anything as I'm one of his closest friends. Neither of us are sure of what to make of the situation so I asked here.


Right, well I maintain that it's not your (or her) business. He isn't cheating, it's porn... presumably she has no problem with him looking at straight porn, so why should it matter if he looks at guys too. If he wanted to tell you or her about his sexuality then he would, forcing the issue is unfair.
Not your place to do anything, regardless of how close you are. The girlfriend snooped, found something she didn't like. She shouldn't have invaded her boyfriend's privacy like that. Now she knows something he isn't ready (presumably) for her to know. Learn your lesson, don't snoop.

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