Why are fat girls so giggly?

no problemo, thank you too.

Fat girl here.
I'm quiet and kinda sombre most of the time. Even when talking to people, I don't really laugh that much even if my friends are laughing together.

I'm not trying to be rude or anything, I'm just interested. Why do you think you are fat, and are you happy being that way? Would you rather be more fat/less fat/not fat at all or are you literally happy exactly how you are?

You don't have to say how "fat" you are or anything, for all I know you're 1kg into being "fat".

When you’re raised as being fat, switching to a healthy lifestyle actually feels better like you get this sense of empowerment that those with a naturally healthy diet wouldn’t understand

With all due respect, if being fat meant I was self conscious about my weight... then I would lose weight. Hardly difficult logic.

We can say all we like that its okay to be fat, its fine to eat yourself into obesity, don't worry you're beautiful just how you are, etc. But the fact is that being fat is not healthy, and a lot of people (myself included) find fat people unattractive. People cannot choose to be fat through their lifestyle, life choices etc and then get upset when others call them what they are.

hey man, i detest people who laugh at others or publicly shame someone based on their weight, but you're obviously gonna judge someone if they're 3+ stone over what they should be. how you judge is up to you; i prefer to keep my thoughts to myself, but if they asked for my opinion, i'd advise them to get help.

I agree that when people are overweight or obese we shouldn't by any means baby them and tell them they don't need help because they do, because it is a health issue, but we have to realise they don't need help because they look ugly, they need it because they are in danger. We should not label them as 'fat' as it is condescending. It is still very possible to be overweight and beautiful.

I appreciate that 'fat' is quite casual as opposed to the more medically correct 'overweight' and 'obese' but I don't see how calling someone who is fat, fat is condescending; so long as its intended more as a description rather than an insult. Would you prefer 'large'?

Beauty is subjective, which is why I said in my previous post that a lot of people find fat people unattractive (rather than saying if you are fat you are unattractive full stop). If a guy wants to date a fat girl, or vice versa, then fair play.

I used to be really self conscious about my weight (even though I was perfectly average, and even slightly on the skinnier side) and when people called me 'fat' I really took it to heart. If the person's ok with it, then it's obviously fine, but we should be more careful with how we use it as people may take it the wrong way

Ah I see where you are coming from. When I use the word "fat" I am talking about someone who is medically overweight rather than someone who is perfectly healthy but who societal norms may say should lose weight.

In the former case, the person needs to lose weight.

In the latter case (i.e. yours), how dare people suggest that they need to lose weight.

I suppose you are right though, it wouldn't necessarily be possible for me to know just looking at someone whether they are overweight or not (two people weighing 1kg different might be visually identical but one may be 'healthy' and one 'overweight'. When I make my comments I am more speaking about someone who is overweight, as in on a factual basis.

Apologies if I came across as overly aggressive

not at all

Fat girl here.
I'm quiet and kinda sombre most of the time. Even when talking to people, I don't really laugh that much even if my friends are laughing together.

What would you define as "fat"

25% upwards in my opinion.

👏🏻👏🏻the fact that op is looking at girls and classing them as fat is honestly just.. ugh I cba with people like this

Yep, it's sooooo bad to call girls fat but guys? No problem mate carry on.