Nudes? Threatening to Leak them

If Someone is threatening to leak nudes of me, what can I do? I’m in a relationship with him, however, yesterday he misread a message which I sent in a jokey way as mean being rude to him. After A bit he told me ‘how would you feel if other people saw these nudes’, also today he said to me ‘I want 10K or I’ll post the nudes on instagram and the videos on Youtube’ but then 2 seconds later told me he was joking.


Can anyone please give me advice on how to deal with this? I know If I leave him or be very rude he will flip and do what he threatens.

Please don’t judge me I know I have made a mistake

Are you above or below the age of 18?

Is this an online relationship or a real one?

Real one

I’m 19 @ uni. No he’s a bit older than me

1) Don't send nudes ever.
2) Report him to the police for blackmail (and if youre under 18, distribution of child pornography)
3) Break up with him.

ur not on anon and call the police if you still have the messages, if you dont they may have to search your phone

What would happen If I reported him? And Yes I know I shouldn’t have. And I’m too scared to break up with him

What would happen If I reported him? And Yes I know I shouldn’t have. And I’m too scared to break up with him

He'd be forced to delete them and arrested I imagine. If you're scared to break up with him, tell the police if he's abusive. How old are you both?

She said shes 19, he's older so 20/21?

Simple and easy. REPORT HIM because i can tell you it doesn't matter how sweet he becomes and you're towards to him, he will reveal those nude pics sooner or later. So before he uses you and blackmail you do report him. He already threatened you once, don't let him threaten you again.

If Someone is threatening to leak nudes of me, what can I do? I’m in a relationship with him, however, yesterday he misread a message which I sent in a jokey way as mean being rude to him. After A bit he told me ‘how would you feel if other people saw these nudes’, also today he said to me ‘I want 10K or I’ll post the nudes on instagram and the videos on Youtube’ but then 2 seconds later told me he was joking.


Can anyone please give me advice on how to deal with this? I know If I leave him or be very rude he will flip and do what he threatens.

Please don’t judge me I know I have made a mistake

there'd be an investigation and both your phones would get searched.

Thanks for telling me. However, this guy Is very dodgy a criminal- I’m scared he may try sort of attack me or do something along the lines of that