This girl...

Sorry to bother you with my nonsense, but if you're reading this you probably have time on your hands.

I'm a guy in year 13. I've always been focused on my studies, but there is this girl in the year below me and I just cannot believe it. Its as if my ideal girl has appeared in the flesh.

The problem is. I have *NO GAME*. I don't know how to talk to girls in general, nonetheless my dream girl. I physically cant pick myself up to approach her. Palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy.

Should I move on? Unless you have any good tips for me?

Thank You!

Reply 1

username2816962

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just talk to her as you would a normal person. if the two of you get on then go from there. If the conversation is awkward then a relationship would never be possible even if she was interested in you too.

Reply 2

username3988142

13

Original post by bennyj901

just talk to her as you would a normal person. if the two of you get on then go from there. If the conversation is awkward then a relationship would never be possible even if she was interested in you too.

I'm not risking the awkwardness. You're right. I'm done XD

Reply 3

username2816962

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Original post by DenzoBenzo

I'm not risking the awkwardness. You're right. I'm done XD

No that is not what I said. Talk to her and see if it works out. You doing nothing at all 100% ensures you two wont get together. Try talking about literally anything and see how it goes.

Reply 4

username3988142

13

Original post by bennyj901

No that is not what I said. Talk to her and see if it works out. You doing nothing at all 100% ensures you two wont get together. Try talking about literally anything and see how it goes.

Dude, if only it were that easy. I'll give it a shot.

Reply 5

username2816962

17

Original post by DenzoBenzo

Dude, if only it were that easy. I'll give it a shot.

It is that easy. Obviously don't just show up out of nowhere but if you get the chance to talk to her then take it. Also you are year 13. If things dont work out you probably will never see her again in your life..... even more reason to do something about it while you have the chance.

Just be yourself

This is so cute omfg

Can't help asking, what makes her your ideal girl in the first place? How much do you know about her? Conceivably you might later find out something that would significantly lower her estimation in your eyes....

Reply 9

Anonymous #2

stop typing XD for a start

Reply 10

username4966870

18

Them lyrics are killing me loooool

Reply 11

username3988142

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Original post by Justvisited

Can't help asking, what makes her your ideal girl in the first place? How much do you know about her? Conceivably you might later find out something that would significantly lower her estimation in your eyes....

Physically I guess.

Reply 12

username3988142

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Original post by Anonymous

stop typing XD for a start

You're right. I'm sorry.

Reply 13

AnnaBananana

Universities Forum Helper

Smile and say hi?

Original post by SanityGone

Smile and say hi?

Maybe, idk. One of the other dudes on here said that I should wait until I miraculously get a chance to talk to her.

Reply 15

AnnaBananana

Universities Forum Helper

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I’d just go with a hi in passing and see how she reacts x

Reply 16

UWS

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It's funny how guys think girls are like some alien species. There's no magic formula needed to talk to them, it's literally the same as talking to a guy, they just have different bits.

Reply 17

username3988142

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Original post by UWS

It's funny how guys think girls are like some alien species. There's no magic formula needed to talk to them, it's literally the same as talking to a guy, they just have different bits.

I know. It is strange, but some of us guys can't help ourselves. The irrational fear, the adrenaline.

I have mocks next week so I probably wont be able to do anything about it.

She hangs out in a large group in a corner. That is my problem.

This girl...

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