Girlfriend told me she wants to break up in September for uni

I'm crushed my girlfriend told me earlier today she wants to break up when she goes to uni and openly said she needs to see other people as we are each other's firsts. She says she wants to make the most of the time we have left and wants to stay together until she goes to uni, she's given no hint of this at all until she told me today yet confusing me more is that we still went back to her house and had sex. Any advice on what I should do? Can I persuade her to change her mind and give it a go?

break up with her now and get a head start. Long distance is hard and will only work if both actually want it to work, she doesn't want it to work and in fact, whilst i understand why she's said that, her saying it is quite disrespectful to you. Do yourself a favour and dump her. If you can't do that then cheat on her, now that your relationship has a fixed end date that she's openly brought up its lost all meaning.

Realistically few relationships survive going to uni so there could be some logic. From I saw with friends who broke up during the first terms it was painful. Maybe there is a way to bank some good times.

What hurts me a few weeks ago she said I was her world and she never wanted to leave me I don't get why she's suddenly changed

I'm crushed my girlfriend told me earlier today she wants to break up when she goes to uni and openly said she needs to see other people as we are each other's firsts. She says she wants to make the most of the time we have left and wants to stay together until she goes to uni, she's given no hint of this at all until she told me today yet confusing me more is that we still went back to her house and had sex. Any advice on what I should do? Can I persuade her to change her mind and give it a go?

I actually messaged her saying why can't we give it a go and she said she would feel trapped and wants to be free and single when she goes off to uni yet she wants us to be a couple until she goes

She’s just using you until she goes to uni. Don’t be that guy. Just break up. Srsly she sounds mad disrespectful. If she rlly loved u she wouldn’t have even mentioned breaking up in the first place bro. Do better bro dump her. That’s the right move.

I'm crushed my girlfriend told me earlier today she wants to break up when she goes to uni and openly said she needs to see other people as we are each other's firsts. She says she wants to make the most of the time we have left and wants to stay together until she goes to uni, she's given no hint of this at all until she told me today yet confusing me more is that we still went back to her house and had sex. Any advice on what I should do? Can I persuade her to change her mind and give it a go?

I just messaged her saying it's over and she says I'm being immature and childish

You made the right decision. You’ll look back on this moment and laugh

Now she's pleading me not to break up with her yet wtf

Now she's pleading me not to break up with her yet wtf

I'm crushed my girlfriend told me earlier today she wants to break up when she goes to uni and openly said she needs to see other people as we are each other's firsts. She says she wants to make the most of the time we have left and wants to stay together until she goes to uni, she's given no hint of this at all until she told me today yet confusing me more is that we still went back to her house and had sex. Any advice on what I should do? Can I persuade her to change her mind and give it a go?

Now she's pleading me not to break up with her yet wtf