To the straight guys out there…

Have you ever had a guy say they like you? What did you do in this situation?

Hi,

I'm straight and I've had a few guys either say, act or hint that they like me.... and TBH, as long as they respect the fact that I'm straight, it doesn't really bother me in the least. In fact, knowing how picky gay guys can be it's kind of a compliment lol. If it's just eye contact, I'd try and ignore it, but if they were to actually approach me, I'd just politely tell them I'm straight. There's only one guy I can remember, who really made me uncomfortable.

IMHO, if you're a "Chad" or a "Pretty boy", you have to accept that you're going to have the odd guy liking you... in exactly the same / equivalent way that if a young woman wants to dress in a "sexy" way, as well as the cute guys, she's going to get some of the less desirable types (e.g. the lairy builders, the Dirty old men, those who are jus downright weird / creepy etc.).

Unfortunately, you can't really pick and choose who does / doesn't find you attractive. So regardless of whether you're a guy or a girl, the question you have to ask yourself is whether or not the attention from the desired target is worth putting up with the types you'd rather not have.

EDIT:- Just wanted to add, that I don't mind as long as there's way more girls who find me attractive. I would expect for every 10 girls who like me, one guy would, as that's in line with the estimated 10% of people who are LGBTQ.

I'd be far more concerned if, say, I was attracting nearly as many guys (or more) as I do girls... as that would suggest I'm doing something specific that attracts guys.

Have you ever had a guy say they like you? What did you do in this situation?

Yo, did your boy best friend break up with you?

Actually I had a guy at work move to me talking about how handsome I was (even said that I should have him be my first - ew) and I had to politely say I was straight.

nope. However, I did know someone who was gay in my old class and he kept on staring at me.

What did I do? Nothing really.

I just treated him as I would any other person. If he was to approach me, and confess his feelings, I’d probably decline the offer.

I’d notice he’d be absolutely flattered/ excessive smiling whenever I talked to him though so that kind of made me uncomfortable............ but didn’t think too much of it...

When did this happened, I suggest you to speak these events with your parents. That's the best option you can do right now.

Have you ever had a guy say they like you? What did you do in this situation?

so which are you, the pretty boy or the chad?