From the start there was attraction from the moment we met in the gym the way he winked at me etc. He works there, Walking past the area he trains heard “there she is” . I emailed him at some point from there he asked for my number texted me from his personal phone. He started helping me with bench press aot always told me to text him to check if hes there or let him know when I'm in. He often comes up bringing his face close close behind me leaning in. He grabbed my hands before on the bench press putting my hand in the right place like no let me admiring my hands. I went too far back on the bench hit him he didn't move stayed there . He's started walking upstairs after asking if I needed to get my stuff saying let me walk you,
One of his close friends were training next to where we were he called her over over saying just my name almost like she would know who I was and she came and said hello etc He fist pumped me one time and i rubbed his hand and he didn't move it and came closer seemed to be more available after. I've seen him past 3/4 weeks since then although he hasn't always told me to text but always did because he told to before , not sure if it was becoming routine. I knew he was always being extra personal with me trying to get closer at times. Now recently he text me after saying he wasn't free that day to help here's my work number text me . Maybe I got too dependent on him texting him to see if he was around? Should I give him space see if he comes around and not text him at all? It feels so awkward text his work phone going backwards.