how long does it take to fall in love? Watch
Ah, that's what this is about...
Just over a month is easily long enough. I actually told my girlfriend I loved her (more specifically, that I'd fallen in love with her, which is a step above) before we were officially going out... we kinda had an 'are we?' thing going on, and me saying that confirmed it was real
Just tell him already!
It depends on the person of course and their past experiences. My first true relationship lasted around 8-9 months but I never confessed to loving her for about 6-8 weeks after knowing her, looking back it wasn't love but lust/ being infatuated. I'm currently seeing a girl who I met late October so it's been about 6 almost 7 weeks, and I feel like I have developed feelings for her. Although she has said she doesn't fall or feel like she loves someone for about 3-6 months which is perfectly fine with me as I am not in love with her anyway. I just feel some relationship type feelings towards her, which I feel she is forcing. We've had sex a lot of the past month and when we do I can see her eyes light up and it's so loving.. Yet she says she doesn't feel anything like that for me yet. I don't know it's just so confusing to me
PS: She is 17, I am almost 17 she is the girl I lost my virginity to, so I guess that adds to me feeling more for her? Anyway is there any tips on how I can suppress my feelings from her until I know whether she wants a relationship or not?
im also 17 and female and from what you've said i think she might be saying all of this so she doesn't want to be taken for advantage, like maybe she's been hurt in the past or something, i dont know just a guess lol. unfortunelty i have no advice, just explain how you feel properly.
But we had a small bump today on my fault and she said she feels like her feelings are forced because she feels I am falling for her quicker than she is falling for me.. I am just so confused now
usually i have to know someone for a few months bfore i feel anything
but then boy do i feel ;//
A tip I have for guys is: Let the girl tell you she loves you.
i fall in-love too quick ahah