My brother makes my parents mad and cry all night... :( Watch
I don't value my bloodline at all. Only my sister - my younger one. The rest may be blood, but they aren't family.
And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. It's his decision to make, not yours. I'm sorry it upsets you that he doesn't care for his parent's authoritarianism, but hey.
I would love to be able to contact her parents and sort it all out, but I don't have any contact details of her. Tried asking a teacher to get me the details, but obviously teachers wouldn't give out phone numbers or anything else to someone else. How can I possibly contact her parents? My dad actually wants to do that, but is unable to.
Did he get her pregnant?
Regardless - you should make him see how much he is hurting your parents and yourself. Or, send him to a boot camp (:
I say this as someone from an Islamic background as well.
This is a phase some Asian boys go through, trust me I know.
Sit him down and talk to him, tell him what he is doing to the family, make him feel terrible about it.
Pm me, I'd like to give you more advice, but not on the thread.
For the people who say " tell your parents to loosen up" that's easy for you to say, but with Asian parents you can't just tell them to loosen up. Plus they're parents, it's not their fault if they're worried about their children. They have that right. You won't understand either, simple because you don't actually know what Hal lf the Asian parents are Like out there. They may be strict, but some of them are amazing parents, so listening to them once in a while doesn't harm the kids.
Yes they're acting a little OTT, but I'm guessing because they're probably just scared for him? And they know they're losing a son if he's not showing any care for your mum.
Anyway, OP, pm me x