I'm so angry at this i need to share! It's so bad its putting me off doing some uni work which i enjoy.
This guy in my year, pretty much took advantage of me about 9 months ago, and has been screwing around with other girls in the year since also. It got to the point that when i didn't text back within 5-10mins he'd call me, or send me like 20 messages..and really freaked me out. Turned out he was seeing another girl at the same time anyway. We've not spoken to each other since, i just feel disgusted mainly at myself every time i see him. He just sent me a message on facebook telling me that it's "silly" i'm not talking to him and would like to be friends and go out sometime, followed by a shed load of kisses and his number
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He doesn't know why i just suddenly ignored him (when i got majorly freaked out by his attention-seeking and was also seeing another girl in the year, who is oblivious to it all) and why i find him so disgusting and repulsive (He's messed around with many other girls this year, tells them to keep it 'secret' as he doesn't want gossip round uni, uses the same phrases..just a basic player) and also i found out he lied on many occasions, oh and my friend saw him campaigning with the EDL a few weeks ago too! If i'm honest i dont want anything to do with him, i'm happy to speak to him as a professional, maybe at work but i'd rather have nothing to do with him if life went my way, let alone be friends with him.
I deleted his message as soon as it appeared, however am I being petty? I really want to tell him exactly why i dont want anything to do with him, but i dont want the drama or hassle..i'm going to carry on ignoring him and let him get on with his little own fantasy world, but my friends have told me i'm being immature and should atleast attempt to be friends!!!!
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