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Why are girls afraid to have sex with the lights on??

This is just absolute madness in my opinion. How on earth can you enjoy sex to it's fullest when the lights are off? Why do girls always switch the light off when they're about to have sex?

Doesn't make any sense. Discuss, please.

Reply 1

Antifazian

16

Either they don't like their body...or they don't really like yours. Bummer right.

Reply 2

KingMessi

19

It could be hot, especially for the first time...?

Reply 3

Lexi99

11

Because they hate how theyre body looks and dont want to subject the guy to that. If the lights are off he can imagine he's with some model or something.

This isnt what I think, i love the lights on, just some girls dont.

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

I'm not - in fact, I dislike having sex in the dark. The only thing I hate is if there's a bright light shining in my face, so I prefer to have lamps on than the overhead ... unless I'm on top of course.

Reply 5

Bramlow

15

Because you're ugly. Or because they're ugly.

Reply 6

illusionz

20

Cause rolls of fat bouncing around isn't an arousing sight. Try getting in shape.

Reply 7

Amandeep_Psych07

2

We don't want you to see our wobbly bits.

Reply 8

death.drop

16

what's with all the threads about women being **** lately?

Reply 9

lovely_me

18

Is this a thread or 'I'm getting some :sexface:

' boast eh...

Reply 10

Indieboohoo

14

Why are guys afraid to have it off? :sexface:

I don't care on or off it's still sex

Reply 11

hothedgehog

16

Sex is all about the desk lamps rather than full lights... full lights just aren't sexy

Reply 12

Stinehh

5

it is because psyhologically women are exposed to immages of which we are all supposed to look like, like the models and stuff ( not good example. but you catch my drift) but then womens magazines critisize the celebs for putting on a few pounds, or not loosing theyr baby weight quickly..
so there for we dont want to let out man look at our bodies incase it is not what they like.. and it causes them to dump us because our boobs are not picture perfect or we dont hvae a flat tummy, and nice tones legs...
we all strive to be the photo shopped " perfect "woman immage ... but its not gonna happen....
all in all it is down to confidence and the fact although a guy may love a girls body, we are still very self critical, as we dont see it in the same way ....

Reply 13

S-man10

18

Because underneath they are insecure and think of themselves and fugly.

Also full lights make you eye hurt. And you might get blind.

Reply 14

Jelephant

12

Come to think of it... I don't believe I've ever done it with the lights off- candle light sometimes but never in the dark... It's not something that's particularly occured to me :erm:

Reply 15

grape:)

22

Slightly dimmed lights is romantic, lights off is odd.....

Reply 16

im so academic

15

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This is just absolute madness in my opinion. How on earth can you enjoy sex to it's fullest when the lights are off? Why do girls always switch the light off when they're about to have sex?

Doesn't make any sense. Discuss, please.

Youtube Lady Gaga's "Dance in the Dark". That would answer your question. :smile:

Reply 17

mimimimi

14

hothedgehog

Sex is all about the desk lamps rather than full lights... full lights just aren't sexy

This

Reply 18

PhilosophyIsMyGame

Most girls are probably concious about they're body, and if being on top makes all thier bits wobble they may be nervous - or maybe the other way round!

Although im my case i dont mind the lights on or off, although dimmed lights gets the mood going !