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Why are girls afraid to have sex with the lights on??

Reply 60

C2H5OH

9

Cause when he's looking she falls apart...

Reply 61

Butterflytears91

It's much easier to let go in the dark. You don't have to worry about him seeing your 'wobbly bits' etc and you can just concentrate on enjoying yourself.

Reply 62

treasureBelle

15

Meh, the whole lights thing is nothing to me. If I'm in bed with a guy, he already has a reasonable idea what my body's like - turning off the lights won't hide the fact I'm not quite Kate Moss. :p:

Some girls (including me, tbh) have major issues with their bodies. While I can throw them off when I'm in bed with a guy (meh, if he didn't like it, we wouldn't be in bed, righ?), some girls get worried that the guy might not find their bodies appealing without the clothes, or will think they're too fat/see something the girl has a problem with (eg a scar, birthmark etc) and freak out/be disgusted. It's basically down to confidence, self esteem and body image.

Reply 63

n0c0ntr0l

12

I blame it on lack of self confidence, certainly ain't my body... unless 8 packs have gone out of fashion.

Reply 64

stinky--pete

11

never not had the lights on!! love to look at my bf and it's the only time i don't feel self-concious or give a crap what i look like!!

Reply 65

Xenomorph v2.1

14

My ex used to do this, but she said it's because she likes to ''feel her way around'' she found it more fun.

I have an unusually good eyesight in the dark, I've always been able to see things relatively clearly so no problemo for me.

Reply 66

Roocky

13

Moa

No they wouldn't! :biggrin:

BTW there is no "women hate" involved! I love women, women are the reason to live! (+money and success, to lesser extent, but girls: :coma:

)

But I hate, and I mean really HATE when people try to sugarcoat some trurths and lie to themselves.

Unfortunately I wouldn't get fat girls.. oh sorry, I meant curvy girls (a.k.a. healthy figure/real women). I would, and I am, getting a confident girl who has reasons to be confident!

Hmmm so do you not believe in the definition of curvy then? Does it automatically equate to 'fat' to you? Women are designed to be curvy, and every now and then we may just be telling the truth about it, having said that, i would imagine even very slim women are self conscious about the whole lights on thing, it just be scary! :eek:

Reply 67

Anonymous #2

i dont think this should be generalised to all women, men are just as self conscious afraid we'll notice the smallness of their penis

2 words: Blue Waffle

Try candle-light instead. Works every time.

Reply 70

kamc

15

Full lights aren't sexy, if I had to choose between no lights and full lights I'd choose no lights. I just have a dim desk light on :yep:

Reply 71

Lucky1993

2

Advanced Subsidiary

This is just absolute madness in my opinion. How on earth can you enjoy sex to it's fullest when the lights are off? Why do girls always switch the light off when they're about to have sex?

Doesn't make any sense. Discuss, please.

You could rephrase your question ''Having sex when your blind? That's what I think why girl don't like having sex in light. Spotty face? Saggy Nipples? IDK.

Reply 72

Moa

13

Farooqi bean

Hmmm so do you not believe in the definition of curvy then? Does it automatically equate to 'fat' to you? Women are designed to be curvy, and every now and then we may just be telling the truth about it, having said that, i would imagine even very slim women are self conscious about the whole lights on thing, it just be scary! :eek:

I believe in the REAL curvy. Let me show you.

Curvy:

Chubby, fat:

PS. I was forced to visit filthy websites to find these pictures, all because of you, damn you! :p:

PS2. For mods: these pics are no more revealing than the bra ad's you have got on the website.

Reply 73

speir

3

Moa

I believe in the REAL curvy. Let me show you.

Curvy:

Chubby, fat:

PS. I was forced to visit filthy websites to find these pictures, all because of you, damn you! :p:

PS2. For mods: these pics are no more revealing than the bra ad's you have got on the website.

exactly why girls are self concious you just called a girl who is prob size 10-12 a massive fat slob because she has a slight rounding to her stomach and bit of weight on her hips which is natural not excessive . god you are a prick. I know im over weight and i do not fool myself by calling it curvy but that girl is in no way a massive fat slob.

Reply 74

Moa

13

speir

exactly why girls are self concious you just called a girl who is prob size 10-12 a massive fat slob because she has a slight rounding to her stomach and bit of weight on her hips which is natural not excessive . god you are a prick. I know im over weight and i do not fool myself by calling it curvy but that girl is in no way a massive fat slob.

I did not call the girl a massive fat slob, I was referring to the fat on her hips.

Reply 75

tinywings

7

Probably because a lot of them feel pressurised by todays standards of beauty and feel uncomfortable because they don't have a flawless porn star body.

Reply 76

tinywings

7

Moa

I believe in the REAL curvy. Let me show you.

Curvy:

Chubby, fat:

PS. I was forced to visit filthy websites to find these pictures, all because of you, damn you! :p:

PS2. For mods: these pics are no more revealing than the bra ad's you have got on the website.

They really really don't look that different, tbh. Just one is in a more flattering pose than the other.

Reply 77

StressReliever

8

Most girls have some hang-ups about their bodies.

Skinny girls, fat girls, athletic girls, chubby girls, muscular girls, curvy girls, straight figured girls, etc....none of us are immune to being insecure and EVERYONE has flaws....perfection doesn't exist despite some airbrushed photos of VS models trying to convince us otherwise.........

Reply 78

fox_the_fix

13

I always have sex with the light on :dontknow:

Girl I'm seeing at the moment has a mirror on the ******* ceiling LOL.

Reply 79

Emster

Advanced Subsidiary

This is just absolute madness in my opinion. How on earth can you enjoy sex to it's fullest when the lights are off? Why do girls always switch the light off when they're about to have sex?

Doesn't make any sense. Discuss, please.

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Why are girls afraid to have sex with the lights on??

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