ok, so i've been with my current boyfriend for just under 2 months, i knew him for just under a month before that (met through mutual aquaintances at a party).
so at first, it was LOVELY. he was everything my (not very good) ex boyfriend wasn't, he was really nice to me, when we went out he paid (novel for me, trust me), and he cleared time for me.
the last bit has now become a problem. he pointed out at the start that he had a very busy life, he is involved in politics, is in several bands, goes to gigs all the time, teaches piano, volunteers at the local pool, as well as school work. we don't go to the same school, he lives about 15 miles away but there are bus/train links between where we live which you can get for under £5. but initially, this didn't seem a big deal, because spare days/afternoons he had he'd let me know,and we'd meet up, and it would be lovely.
but now things have changed. we have got into a pattern of meeting up only once a week, for about 3 hours. and i just can't cope with it. we don't text anymore (long story involving him not having access to a phone all the time) and we only meet up once a week. that itself is horrible, i do stuff too, but obviously i'm nowhere NEAR as busy as he is, so it does feel like i spend a lot of time sitting around at home thinking about missing him, whilst he basically goes out and doesn't bother thinking about me. but also now, if he has a spare day/afternoon he doesn't even tell me, he goes and does other stuff with other people, or does homework, and doesn't let me know.
it's clear that i am not his number 1 priority, and i know it's horrible and selfish of me, but what do i do?
i mentioned to him about it over facebook chat last night, but he just shrugged it off and said
'well, do more stuff, then you won't think about it too much' in THEORY i am meant to see him on tuesday, but that might not work out...it ALWAYS seems like it's me who pushes to organise meeting up and stuff, but now i've run out of money he'd have to come here, and that might not happen...but do i mention my worries on tuesday, and risk ruining the 1 time i'll see him in the next fortnight (i have uni interviews the week after so won't see him), and potentially the whole relationship? or do i just deal with it? how?
AHHHHH.