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Going 'official'

When is the best time to bring it up? I've been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks now. I was gonna wait for him to say something, but I have a feeling I'll be waiting a while... he might just assume we're official, but I can't call him my boyfriend until I know for sure. How do I say that I want to be a proper couple?

Anyone? :P

Eh, I was in a situation like this but it only lasted about three weeks. I thought to myself ugh when will he say something, will I have to, but he eventually did. If I were you, I'd just mention it. That's what I would have done. Just ask him what the situation is, and maybe hint towards what you would like.

Reply 3

Mr Smurf

Ask to go Facebook official innit. :colone:

Reply 4

ForKicks

6 weeks sounds fine. Good luck!

Facebook > Real Life

Well, when I had this situation with my current girlfriend, I just plucked up the courage after about a month.

It's all situational and depends on your feelings but I would say just bring it up, I doubt he'll be too shocked by it, and he's probably thinking the same thing but is too scared to say anything himself!

Good luck, hope it goes well :biggrin: