How to get revenge on mean girls

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We are all 15 and we go to a girls school. We all changed forms last year so I was separated from my best friends and I'm now with these girls for some lessons, for a few years . The bullying started in December but died down abit toward the end of the year.

I have a group of friends in my new form but they are also friends with these ''mean girls''. The girls are the popular ones that upload 100's of pictures on fb everyday, think they are better than anyone, only care about fit boys and makeup. They are quite smart though (we go to a grammar school) so it's not like Karma will make them unsuccessful in life so I guess revenge is the best option?

Here is all what they've done to me in short (4 girls):
-Made me cry in a lesson and laughed
-Tell me to shut up continuously
-Glare at me
-B*tch about me to other friends (someone told me they always use to talk about how ''annoying'' I was when I didn't even do anything)
-Talk crap about me loudly when I'm near them
-Call me names such as ''weird, lesbian (I'm straight)''
-I would turn around and they would shout ''STOP LOOKING AT US!''
-If I'm upset it's ''just a joke jheez''
-Rumours spread amongst the class and even to best friends ''that i'm homophobic'' that ''I watch porn''
-Threatening to punch me in the face
-Acting like they like me before a test then copying me
-Sticking stuff with PVA glue on jumper and saying I did it for attention
-Taking belongings as a ''joke'' one girl still hasn't given me back my mirror and uses it at school occasionally
-Hitting me

On the last week of school they started teasing me etc, then one of the girls was laughing about how everyone said she use to bully me which she did and then one girl said ''sorry if you ever though i was bullying you''. I don't forgive her obviously.

I WANT REVENGE and need ideas.... don't tell me it's best to ignore because that's stupid and does not work. I need good revenge where they will know it was not me. I was thinking fish oil in locker ? I want the first week back to be hell for them.

Oh and don't say anything about teachers because I hate the teachers at my school and if you get bullied they don't do anything.
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-Spread rumours about them
-Throw **** at them
-Take a shotgun to school
-Send anonymous phone calls to their parents
-Get one of them pregnant
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REVENGE = worst idea ever.

Edit: and tbh, from what I've read of your post, I assumed that was what it was like for most people in a girls' school. Full of *****iness and backstabbing...

Anyway, you should try being a guy at a boys' school. Ten times worse except you don't have a period so you just deal with it instead of getting all hormonal.

And someone apologised to you. They probably didn't realise their actions upset you. Forgive them and get over yourself. I think it shows proper character when someone apologises for something like that.

Edit: Why am I getting negged so much for this post? I just think revenge is the dumbest idea ever, and I assumed from the OP this was a troll thread. I'm still not sure about that. If you're being bullied, you don't pull pranks on people to make them stop. You have to make them know that it's not acceptable to treat you like that. Whether that means insulting them as horrid as you can, or beating the **** out of them or whatever, it doesn't mean "revenge". Phrasing it that way makes it sound like you're one of the following:

a) a psychopath
b) a sociopath
c) Lindsey Lohan in the Parent Trap
d) socially inept and possibly morally corrupt as well
e) just plain stupid, because bullying will only increase and you will ostracise yourself from others if you try to take "revenge" on people without killing them (not that I suggest that option either)

And as for saying "I don't forgive her obviously", I think that's immature. Some people don't realise when they're being a bully, and everyone is bullied and bullies at some point in their life. It takes guts to admit when you're in the wrong and so I think whenever anyone gives a genuine apology (and it sounded like on in the OP) then they deserve a bit of respect.

Revenge is for fools. And it is never the way to handle bullying. If you want people to stop treating you like ****, you need to make them think you're not a piece of ****, and they will only loathe you more if you pull a stunt like the suggested "revenge" thing. You get a new year, why not try to start over instead of making them hate you more?
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What the hell 'revenge'? That just makes you as bad as they are. And I'm sure you don't want to be classed as the same level as them.

You handled it in the wrong way, and let them walk all over you, by showing you're weak. If you showed from the beginning, you're not going to take ****. Then this situation wouldn't have spiralled.





But the way I usually deal with situations like these are to punch them
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-Made me cry in a lesson and laughed - Don't cry
-Tell me to shut up continuously - Tell them to shut up
-Glare at me - Ignore it
-B*tch about me to other friends (someone told me they always use to talk about how ''annoying'' I was when I didn't even do anything) - Nothing you can do
-Talk crap about me loudly when I'm near them - Ignore it
-Call me names such as ''weird, lesbian (I'm straight)'' - Ignore it
-I would turn around and they would shout ''STOP LOOKING AT US!'' - Carry on looking
-If I'm upset it's ''just a joke jheez'' - Tell them jokes are meant to be funny
-Rumours spread amongst the class and even to best friends ''that i'm homophobic'' that ''I watch porn'' - How can you be homophobic if you're a lesbian?
-Threatening to punch me in the face - Laugh
-Acting like they like me before a test then copying me - Cover your paper
-Sticking stuff with PVA glue on jumper and saying I did it for attention - Stick stuff on theirs
-Taking belongings as a ''joke'' one girl still hasn't given me back my mirror and uses it at school occasionally - Get up, walk over, take your belongings back
-Hitting me - Hit them back, harder
You have to give as good as you get with bullies. Hate bullies, ****ing hate them.
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What goes aroun comes around, eventually. Just sit back and relax while karma kicks in
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(Original post by Joeman560)
-Spread rumours about them
-Throw **** at them
-Take a shotgun to school
-Send anonymous phone calls to their parents
-Get one of them pregnant
Lol how is the OP going to do that? Artificial insemination?:ninjagirl:
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claim that she's a transvestite and that her real dad is a shemale
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Beat the **** out of them. If you're not capable with your physical strength and technique, then use a weapon.
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Punch them in the gob and walk away!!.Cannot stand *****es like that.


You OP are worth so much more than that.
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slap them down. this isn't your burn book none of us care
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Getting revenge isn't going to help. It makes you as bad as them and makes them want to treat you even worse.
All you can really do is ignore them. Don't try and spread rumours like them or steal their things - everything will be blown out of proportion and you'll end up being the one in trouble.

You say they're popular but I'd guess people only talk to them for their popularity or out of fear. Kinda sad really.
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Burn Book?
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(Original post by KeepItSecret)
Getting revenge isn't going to help. It makes you as bad as them and makes them want to treat you even worse.
All you can really do is ignore them. Don't try and spread rumours like them or steal their things - everything will be blown out of proportion and you'll end up being the one in trouble.

You say they're popular but I'd guess people only talk to them for their popularity or out of fear. Kinda sad really.
Agree, it's always the way. People probably hate them but are too intimidated to say anything.

Also she should ignore it for the most part when it's just words but she should definitely not ignore people hitting her, putting glue on her clothes, taking her belongings etc.
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-Taking belongings as a ''joke'' one girl still hasn't given me back my mirror and uses it at school occasionally
-Hitting me
That girl still hasn't given your belongings back? That is theft, and that is illegal, you should take this to the headteacher or the police.

They hit you? Then that is assault, and that should definitely be taken to the police, the police don't take assault lightly, and they can be arrested.

This is better than revenge, this is justice.
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I agree with the above. Just beat the ****ing **** out of one of them and they will leave you alone.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
We are all 15 and we go to a girls school. We all changed forms last year so I was separated from my best friends and I'm now with these girls for some lessons, for a few years . The bullying started in December but died down abit toward the end of the year.

I have a group of friends in my new form but they are also friends with these ''mean girls''. The girls are the popular ones that upload 100's of pictures on fb everyday, think they are better than anyone, only care about fit boys and makeup. They are quite smart though (we go to a grammar school) so it's not like Karma will make them unsuccessful in life so I guess revenge is the best option?

Here is all what they've done to me in short (4 girls):
-Made me cry in a lesson and laughed
-Tell me to shut up continuously
-Glare at me
-B*tch about me to other friends (someone told me they always use to talk about how ''annoying'' I was when I didn't even do anything)
-Talk crap about me loudly when I'm near them
-Call me names such as ''weird, lesbian (I'm straight)''
-I would turn around and they would shout ''STOP LOOKING AT US!''
-If I'm upset it's ''just a joke jheez''
-Rumours spread amongst the class and even to best friends ''that i'm homophobic'' that ''I watch porn''
-Threatening to punch me in the face
-Acting like they like me before a test then copying me
-Sticking stuff with PVA glue on jumper and saying I did it for attention
-Taking belongings as a ''joke'' one girl still hasn't given me back my mirror and uses it at school occasionally
-Hitting me

On the last week of school they started teasing me etc, then one of the girls was laughing about how everyone said she use to bully me which she did and then one girl said ''sorry if you ever though i was bullying you''. I don't forgive her obviously.

I WANT REVENGE and need ideas.... don't tell me it's best to ignore because that's stupid and does not work. I need good revenge where they will know it was not me. I was thinking fish oil in locker ? I want the first week back to be hell for them.

Oh and don't say anything about teachers because I hate the teachers at my school and if you get bullied they don't do anything.

Go to boxing classes, like a lot. Its not easy but it builds your confidence a hell of a lot. Go up to the cockiest one and punch her in the nose as hard as you can. If they are as plastic as they sound breaking one of their noses will make them freak and and panic. Also gives you reputation for being slightly insane/tough. Therefore preventing others from picking on you in the future.

Otherway is if you are not up for that then pranking could be good, but you need to do it cleverly, however the problem with this is they still will continue bullying you, so I would do the first thing I said.

Also don't write letters to their parents or anything about them, its cowardly when people do that.

Anyway good luck, the people sound like immature *****es, and they get no where in life if they continue like that.
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Agree, it's always the way. People probably hate them but are too intimidated to say anything.

Also she should ignore it for the most part when it's just words but she should definitely not ignore people hitting her, putting glue on her clothes, taking her belongings etc.
Totally agree with you there, for the most part ignoring works, but if they keep on hitting her regardless I think the only thing to do is to report it. Didn't mean to imply she should let them hit her Sadly, reporting it school often doesn't help. My school were useless in regards to bullying.
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(Original post by WorriedAboutSchool)
Go to boxing classes, like a lot. Its not easy but it builds your confidence a hell of a lot. Go up to the cockiest one and punch her in the nose as hard as you can. If they are as plastic as they sound breaking one of their noses will make them freak and and panick. Also gives you reputation for being slightly insane/tough. Therefore preventing others from picking on you in the future.
The boxing idea is good but you can't just walk into school one day and punch someone, aside from the fact you're attacking them (albeit for a reason but still) they will just claim she did it for no reason, OP will have no evidence and she will look like the bully. May even get excluded from school.

Do the boxing, keep yourself to yourself, if they hit you again, then hit them back.
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how about egg there house or throw stuff on their cardigan
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