Join TSR now for chat about life, relationships, fashion and more…Sign up now

Cheated on boyfriend Watch

    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    I kissed a boy last night in a terrible moment of weakness and now I feel sick. I've cheated on my boyfriend of 9 months. My kind, lovely, sweet boyfriend whom I love very much.

    I can't justify it, but I do think a part of me wanted to see what it'd be like to kiss someone else - to see if I truly wanted to be with my boyfriend. And all the while, I hated it - I think this silly 'test' proved I want to be with just him.

    Still, I am wracked with guilt. I know this would break his heart to ever hear. Certainly, if he were to kiss someone else, I don't know what I'd do.

    Should I tell him?
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    what kindof kiss?
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    "test" what a idiot
    • Political Ambassador
    • PS Reviewer
    Offline

    20
    ReputationRep:
    Yes of course you should tell him FFS :facepalm2:

    People make mistakes; maybe he will forgive you and maybe he won't - perhaps things will never be the same - but irrespective of the consequences he deserves to know.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I kissed a boy last night in a terrible moment of weakness and now I feel sick. I've cheated on my boyfriend of 9 months. My kind, lovely, sweet boyfriend whom I love very much.

    I can't justify it, but I do think a part of me wanted to see what it'd be like to kiss someone else - to see if I truly wanted to be with my boyfriend. And all the while, I hated it - I think this silly 'test' proved I want to be with just him.

    Still, I am wracked with guilt. I know this would break his heart to ever hear. Certainly, if he were to kiss someone else, I don't know what I'd do.

    Should I tell him?
    I wouldn't bother telling him. He has probably done the same himself.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    > Kisses another guy
    > Claims it's a test for her BF

    The hamster is strong in this one.
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I kissed a boy last night in a terrible moment of weakness and now I feel sick. I've cheated on my boyfriend of 9 months. My kind, lovely, sweet boyfriend whom I love very much.

    I can't justify it, but I do think a part of me wanted to see what it'd be like to kiss someone else - to see if I truly wanted to be with my boyfriend. And all the while, I hated it - I think this silly 'test' proved I want to be with just him.

    Still, I am wracked with guilt. I know this would break his heart to ever hear. Certainly, if he were to kiss someone else, I don't know what I'd do.

    Should I tell him?
    I would just try and learn from your mistake.

    you won't do any good by telling him and, if it didn't mean anything to you, there is no reason why he should know.
    Offline

    21
    ReputationRep:
    I think you should tell him before someone else does. You can't risk it - if someone else tells him and you haven't told him first he will almost definitely jump to the assumption that it meant more than it did, because you are hiding it from him.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I kissed a boy last night in a terrible moment of weakness and now I feel sick. I've cheated on my boyfriend of 9 months. My kind, lovely, sweet boyfriend whom I love very much.

    I can't justify it, but I do think a part of me wanted to see what it'd be like to kiss someone else - to see if I truly wanted to be with my boyfriend. And all the while, I hated it - I think this silly 'test' proved I want to be with just him.

    Still, I am wracked with guilt. I know this would break his heart to ever hear. Certainly, if he were to kiss someone else, I don't know what I'd do.

    Should I tell him?
    Jesus, hes not an experiment you can't 'test yourself' by snogging another guy, tell him asap and try not to do one of your tests again
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    Best to tell him, best coming from you than somebody else
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    You must tell him. You can't have a relationship based on guilt and deceit.
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    Unfortunately, you just have to man up and tell him. If you can live with yourself knowing that you wouldn't be together if he actually knew what type of person you are, then he should want nothing to do with you. If you tell him, he shouldn't forgive you but he might anyway
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    Tell him

    Hopefully He'll break up with you. He deserves better, you know, someone that's not a ****
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    Also - how do you even get yourself in that situation without wanting to be in that situation?
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    Tell him!! If not the guilt will eat you up and if he ever says anything nice to you, you will just feel horrible! A relationship with lies and cheating is not good, not good at all
    Offline

    9
    ReputationRep:
    You shouldn't have done it, although we don't need to tell you that, I assume your guilt is enough. Tell him and hopefully you will both get over it, we all make mistakes, take this one and learn from it.
    Offline

    4
    ReputationRep:
    Yes tell him. And whether or not he breaks up with you, don't do it again.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Beth_L_G)
    Tell him

    Hopefully He'll break up with you. He deserves better, you know, someone that's not a ****
    Evidently she isn't a '****' as she feels guilty enough to face judgement on TSR. She didnt sleep with anyone. Why use such a derogative term anyway? It's horrible.
    If you cant bare to be around him when you next see him then it means you should tell him. If it means anything you'd probably end up blurting it out anyway tbh.
    He might forgive you it might make you stronger.. it might make him overprotective. All depends.

    Posted from TSR Mobile
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Beth_L_G)
    Tell him

    Hopefully He'll break up with you. He deserves better, you know, someone that's not a ****
    This. I hope he dumps you.
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by al-pal)
    Evidently she isn't a '****' as she feels guilty enough to face judgement on TSR. She didnt sleep with anyone. Why use such a derogative term anyway? It's horrible.
    If you cant bare to be around him when you next see him then it means you should tell him. If it means anything you'd probably end up blurting it out anyway tbh.
    He might forgive you it might make you stronger.. it might make him overprotective. All depends.

    Posted from TSR Mobile
    Calling her a **** isn't horrible, cheating on your boyfriend is. Like you said, if she didnt want to hear it she shouldn't of posted it on here
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: March 21, 2013
Poll
Which pet is the best?

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Quick reply
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.