I want a boyfriend...

Best advice, fake it if you stumble, make a point of pointing it out and laughing at it. Confidence is as easy to fake as any other trait, best news is the more you fake it, the more you learn to act that way naturally.

True, but do I really want to present a fake image of myself? It's not that i'm afraid to approach women, it's more that i just simply don't know how. If i saw a girl i liked in the gym, what would i do? I feel like if i literally just walked over i'd need something worthwhile to say otherwise i'd just come off as a creep.

I can tell you for a fact that you shouldn't approach women who are working out, it's annoying and horrible. BUT, if you wait until the person is in a lounge making coffee or something, or just leaving, and in no such hurry, approach her. Either she'll reject you nicely, or she'll give you her number.

so badly.

I want the romance and physical side of a relationship. I want someone who is mature.

Me?
Height: 5'8
Weight: 11 st 5 lb
Long legs
A nice bum
Brown hair and eyes
A little tan

What the heck am I doing wrong?

I've had one bf previously, and met him online.
I've never met someone in person, bar one who rejected me, who I fancied the pants of in London.

Where do you meet people who actually talk to you?

If only older guys are going for you it might have something to do with your size. I've noticed younger men tend to go for those with a slim figure while older men aren't as fussed. 11st 5 is probs not the healthiest weight for your height.

BUT THAT'S SO WIERD!!!!

*switches back to a normal person*

I've met friends that way, but never anyone I found hot. Mind you, some guys in the Tube....

But from my experience, I come across as a complete mental woman.

I fail to see how that has anything to do with age, i'm 20 and i'd have no second thoughts going for someone with that figure. It's preference, not age.

True, but do I really want to present a fake image of myself? It's not that i'm afraid to approach women, it's more that i just simply don't know how. If i saw a girl i liked in the gym, what would i do? I feel like if i literally just walked over i'd need something worthwhile to say otherwise i'd just come off as a creep.

The only advice to give you as you are attracted to men and you are a man is to find people who have this same feeling such as in soho in the bars, join the pride marches and make friends with men




What do you mean fat women

Try and make eye contact with them, if they smile and their pupils dilate it is normally a sign that they are attracted to you. Then it is simply a case of finding out if they are single or not.

I love the pupil dilation test, it is an unstoppable physical reaction that can not lie.

I fail to see how that has anything to do with age, i'm 20 and i'd have no second thoughts going for someone with that figure. It's preference, not age.

Well it just so happens that older men are more likely to have that preference than younger men. That seems to be the trend.

5 foot 8 and 11 stone 5 isn't fat, that's a pretty normal weight.

Or that as women mature they become less fixated on being stick thin, as their knowledge and understanding grows.

And as men mature they too become less fixated on the woman with the 'ideal' body shape.