Asking a female friend to take my virginity??

Why do you care so much about losing it?

If you do that, there's a chance you'll ruin your friendship with the girl. Do you want to risk that?

Anyway, I hate that virginity is seen as something for people to be ashamed of

I'm not normally ashamed of it if anything i'm proud most times, but i have really **** days (like today) where i just analyise everything in my life and just start listing the things that get me down

Dude, you make yourself sound desperate

Beacuse there are days where i am desperate, not gonna sugar coat it, my depression makes me feel so **** sometimes

I've got an on-off FwB, basically we're FwBs when she's single (I'm always a free agent by choice, got tired of relationships and the lack of freedom), but when she's in a relationship we cut ties because it gets weird. I like her as a friend as well as being sexually attracted to her, same with her and she's fully aware that we'll not be an item in the foreseeable future. When we are seeing each other I think it's better that we're not commited to each other, thee's none of the arguments or pressure that come with relationships and we just have a laugh together. Plus that first sex session after not being in contact for ages is always mindblowing

So yeah OP, that's my experience with an FwB. I would recommend it, but seeing that you mentioned you get attached to people easily, I'm not sure how well it will work for you. Would you not just consider a relationship with them?

What makes you assume she'd say yes? I think most people would find it weird...

I'm 21 and obviously a virgin and i've recently been having a bit of a inner war with myself

I've been comtemplating about ging up to a friend and asking them to take my virginity, i just don't know what to make of it, i'm the kinda of person that wants sex to mean something, however it does get me down that i'm in my final year at uni and the cloestest thing to sex i've had is dry humping a girl

There is a reason why i havne't done a ONS before, i get attached to peopel farily quicklt (emoitionally), i just don't know what to make of it, the sodes sides of me are having a mini war

If anyone has any expiernace with this or even a FwB situation please share them

I know this doesn't seem like much of a question, but i don't really have anyone to talk to about this, don't have that kinda realationship with my parents so ...