Boyfriend issues.

Ok so I have been going out with this guy for about 4and a half months now. I really like him but he doesn't seem to make much of an effort as I do, he is more into his friends than me when they are over. And he gets drunk every weekend. He is at work and I'm studying and I feel like he is just a distraction. I always have to organise to hang out usually. It's so annoying though cause everything is almost fine when I am with Him, just us... I am thinking of talking about to him soon, but my mum is telling me to just get rid of him.... What do I do??

Reply 1

Inazuma

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dump him. Doesn't sound like a relationship tbh.. incompatible and not worth from sounds of it. Is 'almost fine' really worth it?

Reply 2

PinkNurse

OP

Not really... How can I get over him though cause I know I'll be upset if I broke up with him.

Reply 3

az08

7

Have you actually bothered to sit down and talk to him about how you feel?

Reply 4

Chicken.M.

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Original post by az08

Have you actually bothered to sit down and talk to him about how you feel?

bet he doesn't know about any of this lmao.

Reply 5

PinkNurse

OP

I tried but he slyly changed the subject... I am going to soon

Reply 6

Archit13

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Original post by PinkNurse

I tried but he slyly changed the subject... I am going to soon

That prolly means he isn't quite sure how he feels about you. Break it off for a while until he's sure. Don't let it be one sided. And if he can't give his all in the relationship, he prolly ain't worth it.

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Reply 7

poydtreechada

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Talk to him. If it's not working, dump him.

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Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by PinkNurse

Ok so I have been going out with this guy for about 4and a half months now. I really like him but he doesn't seem to make much of an effort as I do, he is more into his friends than me when they are over. And he gets drunk every weekend. He is at work and I'm studying and I feel like he is just a distraction. I always have to organise to hang out usually. It's so annoying though cause everything is almost fine when I am with Him, just us... I am thinking of talking about to him soon, but my mum is telling me to just get rid of him.... What do I do??

This is exactly what is happening to me. I hate the fact that it seems like I am the one always putting the effort in for us to meet up. But then when I am with him he acts like he wouldn’t want to be anywhere else. I just know I am in love with this guy and clearly my feelings are probably stronger than his so I always make the effort to see him. I couldn’t break up with him because it would hurt too much.

Reply 9

LightBlueSoldier

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