Lost my virginity, what do men think?

Don't throw the baby away with the bath water. Seems to me you lost your virginity in a very respectable way and probably typical way. Realistically you have more than one relationship and some sexual exploration before you find a marriage partner. In answer to your question, I think most if not all guys would struggle with what you propose. You might even get a tad sexually frustrated yourself. But, do what you feel is right and good luck.

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend during my second year of uni.(he is the only man I have ever slept with). I was in love with him and we were together for over a year until he broke up with me when we went to study abroad. He was my second boyfriend. My first relationship was in college and was really short lived. But anyways, I'm not a virgin anymore and I regret it because I don't think my ex really cared that much about me in the end. So since I'm not a virgin, would guys just think of me as a slut? I don't want to have sex again until I'm married..I just don't want to sleep with a guy again and get heartbroken, you know. Guys, would you be in a relationship with a girl that didn't want to have sex?

You did nothing wrong and the regret you feel doesn't seem that logical to me? Maybe you should consider some more why you feel that way. Vowing to not have sex until marriage is likely to be way more off-putting to guys than having had sex before in a committed relationship with someone you cared about...that's how most people lose it.

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend during my second year of uni.(he is the only man I have ever slept with). I was in love with him and we were together for over a year until he broke up with me when we went to study abroad. He was my second boyfriend. My first relationship was in college and was really short lived. But anyways, I'm not a virgin anymore and I regret it because I don't think my ex really cared that much about me in the end. So since I'm not a virgin, would guys just think of me as a slut? I don't want to have sex again until I'm married..I just don't want to sleep with a guy again and get heartbroken, you know. Guys, would you be in a relationship with a girl that didn't want to have sex?

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend during my second year of uni.(he is the only man I have ever slept with). I was in love with him and we were together for over a year until he broke up with me when we went to study abroad. He was my second boyfriend. My first relationship was in college and was really short lived. But anyways, I'm not a virgin anymore and I regret it because I don't think my ex really cared that much about me in the end. So since I'm not a virgin, would guys just think of me as a slut? I don't want to have sex again until I'm married..I just don't want to sleep with a guy again and get heartbroken, you know. Guys, would you be in a relationship with a girl that didn't want to have sex?

I don't think you're a slut and I'm a guy. Do what makes you happy. If you want to put off sex until marriage then do so. If, however, you want to have sex before marriage like you did with your second boyfriend then do so and don't care so much about what other people think. It is none of their business how many people you have slept with!