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    Should a virgin use a condom with a Non virgin?

    Should one be used anyway regardless of sexual past?

    Only the first few times of having sex with a new partner?
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    You make out that a virgin is clean, but that's not always the case.
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    (Original post by WeedCanKill)
    You make out that a virgin is clean, but that's not always the case.
    Fair point. Just wondering other peoples opinions on a discussion I had recently.
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    Missed off

    Or Bareback all the way?
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    It's up to the people in question what they do with their sexual lives, as long as they know the consequences.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Title.

    Should a virgin use a condom with a Non virgin?

    Should one be used anyway regardless of sexual past?

    Only the first few times of having sex with a new partner?
    always use a condom.
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    Always use a condom unless you're in a commited relationship, have been tested, and have other contraception sorted (assuming you don't want to concieve)

    A virgin can have HIV, hepatitis or herpes if they've been exposed through means other than sex. Thrush can also be transmitted via sex
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    Bareback

    YOLO and that





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    (Original post by WeedCanKill)
    You make out that a virgin is clean, but that's not always the case.
    Bring on cystitis 111!!!!


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    (Original post by Anonymous)
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    Should a virgin use a condom with a Non virgin?

    Should one be used anyway regardless of sexual past?

    Only the first few times of having sex with a new partner?
    What?! Have you heard of pregnancy? You should also have an STI after beginning a relationship with a new sexual partner. It's also a massive misconception that gay people don't need to use protection, especially as 1 in 7 gay men in London has HIV! It's totally necessary, even if you're in a monogamous relationship (believe it or not).
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    What?! Have you heard of pregnancy? You should also have an STI after beginning a relationship with a new sexual partner. It's also a massive misconception that gay people don't need to use protection, especially as 1 in 7 gay men in London has HIV! It's totally necessary, even if you're in a monogamous relationship (believe it or not).
    Woops, I meant STI check... Awkward
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    (Original post by Kabloomybuzz)
    Always use a condom unless you're in a commited relationship, have been tested, and have other contraception sorted (assuming you don't want to concieve)

    A virgin can have HIV, hepatitis or herpes if they've been exposed through means other than sex. Thrush can also be transmitted via sex

    That there were my thoughts exactly .
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    Surely this is a discussion you should be having with the person in question, as opposed to strangers on the internet. Do whatever you both feel comfortable with.
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    (Original post by Fidus Achates)
    Surely this is a discussion you should be having with the person in question, as opposed to strangers on the internet. Do whatever you both feel comfortable with.
    This is a discussion I had with friends so wanted to know the views of others, I did say so above.
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    a guys first time without sex should be without condoms
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    (Original post by Submit To Jameel)
    Bareback feels ALOT better.:yes:
    Waking up to feed the resulting screaming infant at 1am in the morning doesn't, though.
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    Condom ffs. Losing your virginity ain't worth an Std.
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    dont think you should be having sex if you dont know the answer to that question!
    unless your getting tested first and are trying for a baby
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    *rolleyes* at the OP....

    Virgin or not ALWAYS use protection.

    Better to be safe than sorry....
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    (Original post by jam277)
    Condom ffs. Losing your virginity ain't worth an Std.
    This :facepalm2: If she isn't on any other sort of contraception you could find yourself a parent too. Why risk it :lolwut:
 
 
 
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