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My search for a girl is getting in the way of uni work

I am looking for a g/f and finding it very distracting from uni. I have not wanted to pursue a partner till now at uni but it seems I want to get out at every chance to meet people and when I'm in I am talking to girls on dating sites etc.

I am not at all focused on my work. Hopefully this will be a phase as it's only been for the past week or so.

Anyone had this problem?
My uni work got in the way of my search for a girl :cool:
There are but three solutions to your common problem

-cold showers
-find a bit
-aggressive exercise

since you cannot find a bit, you are left with the 2
Original post by ChaoticButterfly
My uni work got in the way of my search for a girl :cool:


That's not cool. If you had better time management, you can easily manage uni work and a girl.
Original post by Gott der Zweite
There are but three solutions to your common problem

-cold showers
-find a bit
-aggressive exercise

since you cannot find a bit, you are left with the 2


That only makes me more turned on :tongue:
Original post by ChaoticButterfly
That only makes me more turned on :tongue:



Well that's what they said on It Ain't half hot mum, so it must be true. I'd have thought you'd release your frustrations at least, I do 50 press ups and 50 sit ups, have a cold shower then go to bed as my routine (I find it helps)
Original post by Anonymous
I am looking for a g/f and finding it very distracting from uni. I have not wanted to pursue a partner till now at uni but it seems I want to get out at every chance to meet people and when I'm in I am talking to girls on dating sites etc.

I am not at all focused on my work. Hopefully this will be a phase as it's only been for the past week or so.

Anyone had this problem?

I have a similar problem. Any luck finding someone when you go out?
Original post by Gott der Zweite
Well that's what they said on It Ain't half hot mum, so it must be true. I'd have thought you'd release your frustrations at least, I do 50 press ups and 50 sit ups, have a cold shower then go to bed as my routine (I find it helps)


To be honest being turned on is not really a problem. If anything it can relieve the monotony of studying, gives you something to think about. If it's that bad watch some porn.
There's more to life than relationships. There's no need to study all the time, but it might be helpful to take part in some extracurricular activities instead, or think about improving yourself somehow (learning a new language, instrument etc.)
You're not you when you're desperate for a relationship.

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