Can too much texting a girl be bad?

a year lol u dumb

simple logic, the more of you she sees the more for granted she will take you, I am very serious about this, this is just my own personal experiences, and while this may not be the case for you it certainly is for me.

arrange a meetup, quit texting (or reduce it by 3/5)

I think it is going like you say, we've been texting all day from morning to night for a year.

I give her lifts home now that I have a car, but when I was taking two trains to go home, she never once offered, also I buy her sweets all the time, she never does that for me, plus she hugs colleagues who are boys she hardly talks to, ive been talking to her for a year non stop and she never once hugged me, she hugged him infront of me, i looked at her in a what are you doing face, she looked and me and went, awww and walked off.

the only good thing she does is text me first when i stop texting her and when i blanked her for a day at work, she tried to see what was up.

a year lol u dumb

simple logic, the more of you she sees the more for granted she will take you, I am very serious about this, this is just my own personal experiences, and while this may not be the case for you it certainly is for me.

arrange a meetup, quit texting (or reduce it by 3/5)

You sound like such a beta that it actually hurts. She used you for free rides. Now she's got a car she has disposed you. Delete her number and don't speak to her again.

very mean thing to say

I think it is going like you say, we've been texting all day from morning to night for a year.

I give her lifts home now that I have a car, but when I was taking two trains to go home, she never once offered, also I buy her sweets all the time, she never does that for me, plus she hugs colleagues who are boys she hardly talks to, ive been talking to her for a year non stop and she never once hugged me, she hugged him infront of me, i looked at her in a what are you doing face, she looked and me and went, awww and walked off.

the only good thing she does is text me first when i stop texting her and when i blanked her for a day at work, she tried to see what was up.

I don't know if she used you but it's obvious that you have feelings for her and she just likes you as a friend. I'm in the same situation, I know it hurts.

If it doesn't need replying to, then leave it. I've had friends (now ex friends) constantly text me and it's annoying. Especially when it's nonsense. One appears to be glued to his phone and didn't understand that I'm not.

When I first met her, I didnt like her that way, heard from other people that she liked me, but still had no feelings for her, we still texted daily, months went by and I i started to fall for her but it was too late, I left it far too long and now am a convenient text buddy to her all because i was always available.

Dunno what I want anymore, everytime I try to get over her, she texts me, and when i reply, she doesnt,
Still want to be her friend though, She hasnt tried in 4 days and neither have i.

Is this a good thing? a break.

How do you know it's too late? If she had feelings for you at some point, she probably still have them.

Again, I'm in the same situation except that we text less than you but I see her everyweek. You've got two solutions: tell her and see what happens or move on, don't reply anymore. I've chosen the third solution (keep seeing her every week and suffer...) because we've like 30 very good friends in common and it would be awkward (+ I know she only likes me as a friend so there's no point). Don't make the same mistake...!

How do you know it's too late? If she had feelings for you at some point, she probably still have them.

Again, I'm in the same situation except that we text less than you but I see her everyweek. You've got two solutions: tell her and see what happens or move on, don't reply anymore. I've chosen the third solution (keep seeing her every week and suffer...) because we've like 30 very good friends in common and it would be awkward (+ I know she only likes me as a friend so there's no point). Don't make the same mistake...!

do you think that If a girl liked you at some point, she may like you again in the future?
Like Im trying to get out of the friendzone, but im avoiding her, then after a while I will come back to her, my goal to to reset out dynamics.

I knew she liked me, a lot of touching, compliments, she asked about other girls, she got angry that she was texting first and always making the plans.

Are you trying to make her forget you then start over with her? If you like her that much then i guess thats worth giving it a go.

very mean thing to say

OP needs a swift kick.

simple logic, the more of you she sees the more for granted she will take you

It's tough isnt it? wanting someone that doesnt like you back and you see them all the time and the feelings get stronger and doesnt go away.

Only reason I didnt ask her out when she had feelings for me is because I didnt feel anyting at the time, also I didnt have a car and she did, I live in the middle of no where and public transport was a nightmare, so I wouldnt have been able to actually go out with her, call me old fashioned but I didnt want to be driven around by a girl too. I wanted to be the one taking her out.

I'm happy to be friends though, even though i would suffer quietly, the every day texting for a year would amount to nothing otherwise.