Do the pretty girls lose out to the plain looking ones?

What? Plain girls are far more likely to have confidence issues when going somewhere slightly exhibitionist (like a club) than pretty girls. I can't believe you'd try to claim otherwise.

Oh please. Most guys feel intimidated to go up to a pretty girl and ask her out for fear of rejection. This is why you often see the pretty girls without a boyfriend. On the other hand, guys would rather go up to plainer looking girls because there is less fear of rejection. This leds the plainer looking girls to feel more confident and is often why they are the ones with the boyfriends.

did i say it was a rap battle

will test the guys lyrics, style, game


hammer time.

It's really not that simple.

circumstances and ways to get around them are simple, we are the ones that complicate it.

what with all this self victemization its bull crap.

Hmm...what's that bitter smell in the air?

Just a theory here to the fellas. Would do you prefer to ask a plain looking girl out instead of a pretty girl because you felt intimidated/afraid of getting rejected?

i have to deal with my own insecurities, and self admittidly will say i am a troubled young man. so bitter , maybe i am a little.

i think views like yours are only backing up this way of thinking.

all these walls and obstacles we have to get over, we put up ourselves and there's ways around them.

its like don't think it, do it.

i feel that this thread is no longer productive.

Everybody has problems. The problems of the beautiful are no less valid, just because they have a trait that others would want doesn't mean that it makes their lives easier or that they are promised romantic happiness. If you want people to be considerate of your issues, you should be considerate of the issues that others face.

The problems of pulling are the same for everyone. If you want to pull or get a boyfriend/girlfriend and you have problems doing so, it is AS BAD for you regardless of what you look like. You still don't get what you want at the end of the day. Pulling is not equivalent to the death of a loved-one for anyone, whether you are attractive or not.

You seem to be saying that there is an intrinsic benefit of looking good - I do not believe that there is one, other than getting compliments perhaps. I would feel bad for a girl who cannot find romantic happiness, and it wouldn't matter if she was beautiful or not. If she can't pull or date and wants to, she is still not getting what she wants and it doesn't really matter what she looks like, does it?

You seriously just sound bitter and I think you would have more luck if you just focused on yourself.

I think you made the first personal comment about "the blind leading the blind" and whatnot.

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