Girls, opinions on unmanly guys?

Ok, I'm 20 years old and I guy, I don't fall into the big, bearded chops wood for a living idea of a guy.
I'm 5'9/5'9, and I'm not the most manly guy.

I'm a uk28 waist, I wear skinny jeans, baggy sweaters, flowy shirts, chelsea boots, and big coats.
I also don't wear inherently manly colognes, I don't want to smell like cigars and whiskey, at the minute I wear La Nuit De L'Homme by YSL, or Black Orchid (Unisex) by Tom Ford.

I'm straight, I don't have much if any of a problem with women but I know myself that I'm not that manly,at least in appearance. I'm relatively confident, I play guitar and sing, I flirt, I dress well, I smell good, I don't come off as that manly.

I've had this discussion with girls, once after a night out I was talking to a girl as we were in my room, she commented that I smell good, I told her the name and she knew it was unisex, but then she said 'but that just smells so sexy', so.. does it really matter?

The only people who I could its similar to is Harry Styles or Mick Jagger but for a non-famous college student who is just known for being a musician. They were not very macho but they were with some gorgeous women, would you go for a guy who is similar? Who isn't very manly but is confident and comfortable in his sexuality?

Ok, I'm 20 years old and I guy, I don't fall into the big, bearded chops wood for a living idea of a guy.
I'm 5'9/5'9, and I'm not the most manly guy.

I'm a uk28 waist, I wear skinny jeans, baggy sweaters, flowy shirts, chelsea boots, and big coats.
I also don't wear inherently manly colognes, I don't want to smell like cigars and whiskey, at the minute I wear La Nuit De L'Homme by YSL, or Black Orchid (Unisex) by Tom Ford.

I'm straight, I don't have much if any of a problem with women but I know myself that I'm not that manly,at least in appearance. I'm relatively confident, I play guitar and sing, I flirt, I dress well, I smell good, I don't come off as that manly.

I've had this discussion with girls, once after a night out I was talking to a girl as we were in my room, she commented that I smell good, I told her the name and she knew it was unisex, but then she said 'but that just smells so sexy', so.. does it really matter?

The only people who I could its similar to is Harry Styles or Mick Jagger but for a non-famous college student who is just known for being a musician. They were not very macho but they were with some gorgeous women, would you go for a guy who is similar? Who isn't very manly but is confident and comfortable in his sexuality?

Sounds like you need some Yeezys to flex on some boys haha

Sounds like you need some Yeezys to flex on some boys haha

Ok, I'm 20 years old and I guy, I don't fall into the big, bearded chops wood for a living idea of a guy.
I'm 5'9/5'9, and I'm not the most manly guy.

I'm a uk28 waist, I wear skinny jeans, baggy sweaters, flowy shirts, chelsea boots, and big coats.
I also don't wear inherently manly colognes, I don't want to smell like cigars and whiskey, at the minute I wear La Nuit De L'Homme by YSL, or Black Orchid (Unisex) by Tom Ford.

I'm straight, I don't have much if any of a problem with women but I know myself that I'm not that manly,at least in appearance. I'm relatively confident, I play guitar and sing, I flirt, I dress well, I smell good, I don't come off as that manly.

I've had this discussion with girls, once after a night out I was talking to a girl as we were in my room, she commented that I smell good, I told her the name and she knew it was unisex, but then she said 'but that just smells so sexy', so.. does it really matter?

The only people who I could its similar to is Harry Styles or Mick Jagger but for a non-famous college student who is just known for being a musician. They were not very macho but they were with some gorgeous women, would you go for a guy who is similar? Who isn't very manly but is confident and comfortable in his sexuality?

well my opinion as a 15 year old girl is that you should grow the hell up. You are 20 years old and you sound like a prepubescent girl.
You should realise that people of your age don't care about this **** and even if they do you should shut them out of your life. Look at a man called park jimin for
example, he isn't manly and yet women love him. I feel like you are being hard on yourself. BTW I'm on my mates account don't hate on her

Park Jimin is a girl though?
People my age do care, in fact they probably care as much if not more than people your age, when you go to uni you meet a lot of people, male and female, and getting a girlfriend/boyfriend etc is important for a lot of people, so they dress up when they go out, maybe you don't do it specifically for the opposite sex but for yourself, in that case you appear more confident in yourself, and confidence is attractive.

I don't really care either way tbh. I don't like this caveman look that's in rn, and very masculine and muscular men scare me You're fine op

Your waist size is tiny

Park Jimin's a boy. but I agree withyou, my friend was just being harsh. but still accept yourself and youll find someone .

I looked on the first wiki page, it says "She is a member of South Korean girl duo 15&"..

Thanks anyway.

OP google Kpop, take a look at those guys. They have millions of fangirls and they don't look like your typical macho manly man type of guys.


Edit: Omg i didnt realise so many people brought this up XD

That's japanese culture its alot different compared to here.Plus they look gay.