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Why do girls stare/smile at me but dont approach me?

Everywhere I go girls look at me. Guys also look but that's because im quite fit and wear nice clothing. The thing is that girls or groups of girls stare at me, but they rarely approach. I sometimes hear them complimenting me etc so theyre clearly attracted to me but im not sure why they dont approach?

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They want you to approach them?
Reply 2
Original post by Eternalflames
They want you to approach them?


Yeah but how am i meant to know if they have a bf or are just admiring? Ive gotten many girls with bf stare at me
Original post by Anonymous
Yeah but how am i meant to know if they have a bf or are just admiring? Ive gotten many girls with bf stare at me

Ask them
Most are shy and/or prefer the guy to make the first move
Approach them! Say hello, make friendly conversation - what is the absolute worst that could happen? You might even find out why they may have been looking at you. It's usually the guy who makes the first move anyway (obviously this isn't always the case) - you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain by doing so.
Wow so uk men are really this whimpish? Approach her first then you mug.
They're probably looking at you because you're looking at them.

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Reply 8
Original post by loveleest
Wow so uk men are really this whimpish? Approach her first then you mug.


I thought feminists don't subscribe to gender norms :beard:
Stop being a pussy and approach them. You should have no problem with confidence with the way u go on about urself
Original post by squirrology
They're probably looking at you because you're looking at them.

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I'm pretty sure it's the same guy that keeps making them for god knows why.
Lol
I am guessing you are a whimp too?
Original post by Jirga
I thought feminists don't subscribe to gender norms :beard:
Original post by Ribbit1234
Stop being a pussy and approach them. You should have no problem with confidence with the way u go on about urself


This.
Reply 13
Original post by loveleest
Lol
I am guessing you are a whimp too?


Strawman when you don't have a reply, noice. Don't pick and choose which equalities you want, you utter hypocrite.
Original post by Jirga
Strawman when you don't have a reply, noice. Don't pick and choose which equalities you want, you utter hypocrite.


Lol my post really did hit you like a bus
dont call yourself a "man" if you are too scared to approach a women.
End off.
Reply 15
Original post by loveleest
Lol my post really did hit you like a bus
dont call yourself a "man" if you are too scared to approach a women.
End off.


Says you who doesn't address the point and just sticks to insults :rofl:
Have you ever thought maybe no one wants to approach you?
Original post by Jirga
Says you who doesn't address the point and just sticks to insults :rofl:
Have you ever thought maybe no one wants to approach you?


I do get approached just very rarely. But that's the same with every british womrn because the men here are "too scared" to approach us.
Reply 17
Original post by loveleest
I do get approached just very rarely. But that's the same with every british womrn because the men here are "too scared" to approach us.


Reject feminism then.
Original post by loveleest
Lol my post really did hit you like a bus
dont call yourself a "man" if you are too scared to approach a women.
End off.


Women are scary, even vaginas looks like snakes with wide open mouths ready to bite your penis off.
Original post by The Great Game
Women are scary, even vaginas looks like snakes with wide open mouths ready to bite your penis off.


Are you a hetrosexual man? Cuz...

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