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Do girls find it unattractive if a guy has been obese in the past?

But is not anymore (in fact, being quite fit and athletic now)?

Honest opinions, I won't judge. I just want to know how girls feel about it.

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Why would they care about the past. I guess it could show the girls you are determined :smile:

Reply 2

username2926188

I find it even more attractive that he has turned his life around and that he had the courage. And he got to where he is now. Wouldn't give a damn!

Reply 3

Kalail

Past is the past dude. If a guy is fit now but was obese before I'd still bone them just as hard as if they'd always been fit

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Some girls might see it as an inherent personality flaw.

Reply 5

user382

Depends whether your wallet is "obese" or not?

Reply 6

Lxxa14

Original post by emerald7770

I find it even more attractive that he has turned his life around and that he had the courage. And he got to where he is now. Wouldn't give a damn!

Same

Reply 7

UWS

Original post by Anonymous

Some girls might see it as an inherent personality flaw.

For being obese in the past? Well if you're gonna get rejected based on that are they really worth your time....?

Reply 8

Michiyo

If you have a normal weight now, not at all. :h:

In fact, knowing how much he managed to change his life around is admirable. Not everyone has the strength, determination, organisation skills, and willpower to go from obese to fit and quite athletic, and the fact that someone managed to do it makes it likely that they possess some or all the traits I specified, which are all very desirable in a partner.

(edited 6 years ago)

Reply 9

Bang Outta Order

I know loads of males who were chubby earlier in life and bulked up later...has someone actually turned you down for this...? lol That aint right.

Reply 10

clumsyorange

I can't see why they would

Reply 11

august11

Original post by Anonymous

But is not anymore (in fact, being quite fit and athletic now)?

Honest opinions, I won't judge. I just want to know how girls feel about it.

Sounds like this is more about you. You need to put the past behind you, you clearly haven't. Forgive yourself.

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by 0to100

I know loads of males who were chubby earlier in life and bulked up later...has someone actually turned you down for this...? lol That aint right.

I haven't. Well, not yet. I overheard the best friend of a girl I asked out telling her that, basically, she shouldn't date me 'cos I used to be obese.

Reply 13

username1842595

Original post by Anonymous

I haven't. Well, not yet. I overheard the best friend of a girl I asked out telling her that, basically, she shouldn't date me 'cos I used to be obese.

LOL, this girl sounds like a weirdo, you've got nothing to worry about.

Reply 14

Bang Outta Order

Original post by Anonymous

I haven't. Well, not yet. I overheard the best friend of a girl I asked out telling her that, basically, she shouldn't date me 'cos I used to be obese.

Original post by Fermion.

LOL, this girl sounds like a weirdo, you've got nothing to worry about.

maybe she thinks obesity is a bad gene or something, idk, kinda silly.

I mean some obese people are obese because of like gland problems. But mostly it's not genetic lmao. It's more so cultural. Like the mum eats sausage rolls so the baby eats sausage rolls :rofl:

Reply 15

username1842595

Original post by 0to100

Honestly, this is why relationships never work out. Wont date a guy because he used to be obese? Wtf is this world coming to, PMSL.

Reply 16

ProblemSolver201

I can tell you this from experience,
NO
The thing is when people turn their lives around they arn't C**ky about it.
Just make sure you have a good personality along with those good looks and good luck