Asking all the guys

you sound like an attractive girl, based on that description, a lot of guys would be interested....

....here's an idea though, why don't you ask guys you're interested in to hang out? The worst that'll happen is they'll say no.

Reply 21

Kyx

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This sounds like my ideal wife tbh :redface:

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Reply 22

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by eden3

you sound like an attractive girl, based on that description, a lot of guys would be interested....

....here's an idea though, why don't you ask guys you're interested in to hang out? The worst that'll happen is they'll say no.

The answer is........I'm terrified, dear friend.

No, I'm going to make an active effort in uni. Just, hearing no kind of sucks.

Reply 23

eden3

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Original post by Anonymous

The answer is........I'm terrified, dear friend.

No, I'm going to make an active effort in uni. Just, hearing no kind of sucks.

I know rejection is terrifying but it's a part of life, it comes in all forms, not just the romantic sense :smile:

I've lost count of the amount times I've been rejected by girls :lol:

happens to everyone... truth is, it sucks for like 2 minutes then you get over it lol.

Not everyone is going to like you - there's no point in stressing out why they don't.

The more you expose yourself to these kind of situations, the better you'll be able to handle rejection and gain experience. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.. honestly you should ideally adapt on outlook on life where you live without regrets. It's better to have known so and so 100% doesn't like you than thinking "hmmmm..... what if they did want to go out with me"

PM me if you want to talk more about this stuff :smile:

Reply 24

shawn_o1

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You don't sound like you have any specific requirements for a potential partner. But if you do, make sure you meet them yourself :biggrin:

Reply 25

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by Kyx

This sounds like my ideal wife tbh :redface:

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Why thank you. Hmm, if fate has it, we'll meet someday then :-D

Reply 26

username1439610

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Original post by Anonymous

The answer is........I'm terrified, dear friend.

No, I'm going to make an active effort in uni. Just, hearing no kind of sucks.

You sound like the perfect type of girl. Would you rather live with the feeling of being told 'no' or the feeling of 'what if'? I've been in both situations and trust me when I say that the feeling of being told no is certainly not as bad as living with the feeling of asking myself what if? You need to get out and enjoy yourself and not live your life in fear. One day, you will find someone who likes you for who you are.

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Kyx

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Original post by Anonymous

Why thank you. Hmm, if fate has it, we'll meet someday then :-D

Depends, Fate might get to me before you do :redface:

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Reply 28

Dogeyes

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Original post by Anonymous

I have a question for you:

I'm pretty introverted. I dislike night clubs, drinking, am not promiscuous. My idea of an ideal night would be watching a movie, going for a stroll, reading or going out for a relaxed dinner. I like a good banter, and am not by any means the prettiest girl around. I'm pretty shy in terms of clothing and I like baking. I don't wear any makeup (and never will, god that stuff is itchy) and don't have too bad a sense of humour.

It's pretty much impossible to get a guy to like me, isn't it? Am I too......homely? Boring? I'm just really uncomfortable in social situations like parties and clubs.

The vast majority of guys I've met go for the other kind. The confident and sure kind. I'm not insecure, but I am pretty quiet.

Well you tick all my boxes ☺️

Reply 29

Katzen

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Girl as long as you're not fat and you promise to wear this when you go outside or look at the windows, we have a deal.

Reply 30

AlQaholic

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Original post by Nirvana1989-1994

You clearly are insecure lol.

Shutup clay jensen

Reply 31

BTAnonymous

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Sometimes I find confident girls talk bs and are just annoying and won't shut the f*ck up.

Reply 32

saharan_skies

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aren't you gay. :beard:

Original post by Kyx

This sounds like my ideal wife tbh :redface:

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Reply 33

Kyx

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Original post by saharan_skies

aren't you gay. :beard:

Bi!!!!

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Reply 34

Vitality18

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No matter how introverted you are, always remember that theres equally introverted and even more, for shy guys like me equally shy people are ideal since they know how it feels and wont put you "on the spot" overly often

Reply 35

ddrrzzeerr

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Baking is a plus point even though I don't eat baked stuff. I couldn't be with someone who doesn't like drinking though.

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username2053059

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Original post by Anonymous

I have a question for you:

I'm pretty introverted. I dislike night clubs, drinking, am not promiscuous. My idea of an ideal night would be watching a movie, going for a stroll, reading or going out for a relaxed dinner. I like a good banter, and am not by any means the prettiest girl around. I'm pretty shy in terms of clothing and I like baking. I don't wear any makeup (and never will, god that stuff is itchy) and don't have too bad a sense of humour.

It's pretty much impossible to get a guy to like me, isn't it? Am I too......homely? Boring? I'm just really uncomfortable in social situations like parties and clubs.

The vast majority of guys I've met go for the other kind. The confident and sure kind. I'm not insecure, but I am pretty quiet.

The problem with this is that, people like you tend to stay indoors...

Reply 37

Nirvana1989-1994

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Original post by 0zzu

Man, you must have strong legs from jumping to conclusions.

But to answer OP, there are guys out there who probably feel the same way but just reversed. It might take a while to find the right guy.