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I don't believe you can claim that you love someone and are loyal to them if you watch porn.

By watching porn you're allowing yourself to be sexually aroused by another (wo)man therefore you're cheating.

I also believe that thinking/talking about another person sexually or romantically is also cheating.

You can't think/talk about another person and say that you're loyal to your romantic partner.
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(Original post by Catsarefamily)
I don't believe you can claim that you love someone and are loyal to them if you watch porn.

By watching porn you're allowing yourself to be sexually aroused by another (wo0man therefore you're cheating.

I also believe that thinking/talking about another person sexually or romantically is also cheating.

You can't think/talk about another person and say that you're loyal to your romantic partner.
how is getting aroused by other women cheating? :rofl:
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Wouldn't bother me but I guess I can understand why others would say otherwise. I don't see how it's regarded as cheating though.
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how is getting aroused by other women cheating? :rofl:
You're being aroused by someone other than your romantic partner, that's cheating!

Unless it happens without you wanting it too then it's not but by willingly watching porn you're allowing yourself to be aroused by another person!
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How on earth did you manage '(wo0man' ?
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You sound ridiculously insecure.
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Haha good luck with being in a long term relationship NEVER thinking about another person :hahaha:
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Haha good luck with being in a long term relationship NEVER thinking about another person :hahaha:
I'm pretty sure I'm demisexual so that most likely won't ever happen.
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I don't see how it is cheating.
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How on earth did you manage '(wo0man' ?
It was a typo.
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You sound ridiculously insecure.
I'm not.
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I'm pretty sure I'm demisexual so that most likely won't ever happen.
Did you just make that up....
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Did you just make that up....
Nope. I don't feel sexual attraction unless I have a strong emotional bond with the person.
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(Original post by Catsarefamily)
I don't believe you can claim that you love someone and are loyal to them if you watch porn.

By watching porn you're allowing yourself to be sexually aroused by another (wo)man therefore you're cheating.

I also believe that thinking/talking about another person sexually or romantically is also cheating.

You can't think/talk about another person and say that you're loyal to your romantic partner.
Personally, I don't. It's usually really insecure people who have an issue with their partner watching it.
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Wouldn't bother me but I guess I can understand why others would say otherwise. I don't see how it's regarded as cheating though.
If you don't see how it's regarded as cheating then you don't understand how others can see it that way.
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I'm not.
You sure about that? I'm seeing a lot of evidence against that claim and very little to support it
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I'm very finnicky about what men I date and even speak to do but this is a bit over the top even for me.
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If you don't see how it's regarded as cheating then you don't understand how others can see it that way.
Well no because that's not what I meant. People could be bothered by it but not think it's like cheating, e.g. some people are just disgusted by porn.
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(Original post by Catsarefamily)
I don't believe you can claim that you love someone and are loyal to them if you watch porn.

By watching porn you're allowing yourself to be sexually aroused by another (wo)man therefore you're cheating.

I also believe that thinking/talking about another person sexually or romantically is also cheating.

You can't think/talk about another person and say that you're loyal to your romantic partner.
It's all about discipline at the end of the day
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Well no because that's not what I meant. People could be bothered by it but not think it's like cheating, e.g. some people are just disgusted by porn.
Um no you're just adding on an explanation so people won't get mad at you for disagreeing with them. 😏 we're not talking about how gross porn is.

I read what you said and you contradicted yourself is all. It's not a big deal.
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Um no you're just adding on an explanation so people won't get mad at you for disagreeing with them. 😏 we're not talking about how gross porn is.

I read what you said and you contradicted yourself is all. It's not a big deal.
I don't care if people disagree?

Or you didn't understand me and you're just trying to start an unnecessary argument
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