Is he cheating or am I just overthinking?

So my boyfriend and I haven’t spoken at all for a couple weeks. We made up and put it behind us. I asked him if he wanted to FaceTime as it’s been a while and he said “I’m playing games there is no point, we don’t need to spend every minute together”. After not talking for so long I thought he would want to catch up. The time we didn’t speak he spent a lot of time with friends till very early hours of the morning. Could he be talking to someone else or am I just overthinking?

tbh.. when they become like that, there usually is someone else in the picture so youre better off asking straight up to see if he wants to continue it with you. you arent overthinking dw!! just be vocal with your thoughts to him

Ughh I wish it was that simple. I’ve asked him many times before as I’m quite a bad overthinking at times because I’ve been hurt before and all he says is “I don’t cheat” or “you’re paranoid”. Tbh I don’t think cheaters will ever reveal their actions if asked.

Are you sure you've put it behind you?

Why didn't you speak for weeks?

We spent the weekend together and kept arguing over small things. One of those things being he got really annoyed that I had accidentally left something of mine at his house. Which has happened before by the way and it wasn’t an issue. I feel like I’m being really naive, especially if he is angry over me leaving my belongings on accident.

So my boyfriend and I haven’t spoken at all for a couple weeks. We made up and put it behind us. I asked him if he wanted to FaceTime as it’s been a while and he said “I’m playing games there is no point, we don’t need to spend every minute together”. After not talking for so long I thought he would want to catch up. The time we didn’t speak he spent a lot of time with friends till very early hours of the morning. Could he be talking to someone else or am I just overthinking?

So my boyfriend and I haven’t spoken at all for a couple weeks. We made up and put it behind us. I asked him if he wanted to FaceTime as it’s been a while and he said “I’m playing games there is no point, we don’t need to spend every minute together”. After not talking for so long I thought he would want to catch up. The time we didn’t speak he spent a lot of time with friends till very early hours of the morning. Could he be talking to someone else or am I just overthinking?