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how would you react to 21 year old virgin

I’m a 21 y/o female and a virgin. Haven’t done much sexually and my last relationship was when I was 15. I had extremely low self esteem when I was younger and now I feel more confident and better about myself but I’m still nervous about relationships/sex. I’m not at uni so I only really socialise with people I work with and I can’t remember the last time I met a guy my own age. It makes me really self conscious and I’m scared that if I do get in a relationship that they’ll think I’m weird or there’s something wrong with me when I tell them I’m a virgin. guys, how would you genuinely feel if a girl you were seeing said she was a virgin? (At 21)

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

honestly we would probably think they are ugly and/or have a problem with their vagina or something

Reply 2

qasim-96

I wouldn’t care.

Spoiler

Reply 3

UWS

Indifferent.

My gf was 20 and a virgin, it really didn't bother me at all.

Reply 4

JDieMstr

She either has high af standards or just saving herself for that special onemanting?

good good lovin'

It doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not lol. This isn't the 18th century where virginity matters.

Reply 7

Anonymous #4

I'd be really really happy, oh what I'd wouldn't give for a girl that hasn't been rammed by a load of guys already. Its like being back in 3m BC. People think were progressing but I don't think so. Just take your time, people make out its nothing but sex us very powerful; multibillion dollar industries are created around it, it releases all kinds of hormones in the brain and body, the excess of it has lead to divorce rates rocketting. Don't be pressured by this nasty society we live in, I know a lot of guys who would rather a virgin/inexperienced for a relationship and use the experienced girls just for a night.