i pierced my doubles, and my helix on my own. not even with a needle....just the earring! ha. you can hate me too. sounds like you have an infection.
how long ago did you do it?
how often to you sanitize them?
and DO NOT use rubbing alcohol for daily sanitations. it dries out the skin and kills the white blood cells (which promote healing and are the body’s natural defense from bacteria) which will cause the ear to become more inflamed and put you at risk for the infection to get worse.
i recommend witch hazel! it is a natural astringent and has worked wonders.
i had the same issues with mine and this is the best advice i can give you:
- soak a towel in hot water and apply it to the ear, it will get blood flowing and draw the white blood cells to the area (PS it feels very good when the heat is applied)
- sanitize the piercing 2-3 times daily. no more than 3. oversanitizing can be just as harmful as not sanitizing enough!
- use witch hazel or ‘Wound Wash’
- every night or so, create a saline solution (warm water with salt) and put it into a shallow bowl. submerge your ear in it for 10 minutes to clean and sooth the area.
- dont irritate the piercing by— moving it around a bunch, touching it with dirty hands, getting hair or clothes caught on it, or sleeping on it wrong.
- for the sleeping issue- roll up a small blanket or towel into a donut shape (the inner ‘hole’ should be large enough to fit your entire ear in it) and put that on your pillow. (if you dont understand what im trying to illustrate with this, go to etsy and look up ‘The Hurts Donut’.)
keep it clean and healthy!
good luck!
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