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I am a female who is a virgin and I cant help but wonder what exactly I am missing out on? Can anyone just tell me so i know what to expect somewhat?
In the same boat
Original post by Anonymous
I am a female who is a virgin and I cant help but wonder what exactly I am missing out on? Can anyone just tell me so i know what to expect somewhat?


You're not missing out on anything just take it easy and if the times comes just go with the flow
Original post by Anonymous
I am a female who is a virgin and I cant help but wonder what exactly I am missing out on? Can anyone just tell me so i know what to expect somewhat?


Will you be getting married? You should ask people around you, not people on TSR. However all the statistical evidence shows you should remain a virgin until you get married. If you have sex before marriage, then you are missing out on that.
Original post by sayko123
You're not missing out on anything just take it easy and if the times comes just go with the flow


Worst advice ever.
Reply 5
Original post by sayko123
You're not missing out on anything just take it easy and if the times comes just go with the flow


Its always women/men whose parents are the most liberal, those with rich parents or who have slept with the most people who say that :/
Original post by Anonymous
Its always women/men whose parents are the most liberal, those with rich parents or who have slept with the most people who say that :/


I'm not specially rich, my parents aren't that open minded either
Tbh you're not missing out Cuz you shouldn't rush things like that
Reply 8
Original post by Anonymous
Tbh you're not missing out Cuz you shouldn't rush things like that


OMG rich coming from a bunch of people who can write a sex novel on their 18th birthday :frown:
how old are you?
Original post by Anonymous
OMG rich coming from a bunch of people who can write a sex novel on their 18th birthday :frown:


WTF why ppl assuming things you don't know me my age my gender or my experiences don't talk bout **** you don't know
Reply 11
Sex is just something to do, lose your v when you want, anyone who pokes fun at your sex life or lack of wants to distract from theur own insecurities and frustration.
Dont bother waiting til marriage, as you need to build confidance and an incredibly strong bond for such a legally binding practice, which is hard to escape from.
Not sure what is feels like as am't a woman, but it would probs feel the same all the time.
Original post by TheDanr
Sex is just something to do, lose your v when you want, anyone who pokes fun at your sex life or lack of wants to distract from theur own insecurities and frustration.
Dont bother waiting til marriage, as you need to build confidance and an incredibly strong bond for such a legally binding practice, which is hard to escape from.
Not sure what is feels like as am't a woman, but it would probs feel the same all the time.


yes but the men from the gym dont seem interested in me in that way which ruins my opportunity to lose my virginity
Reply 13
Original post by Anonymous
yes but the men from the gym dont seem interested in me in that way which ruins my opportunity to lose my virginity

Try other places, talk to guys through friends, socialise more if you can. I have no idea otherwise
Original post by Anonymous
yes but the men from the gym dont seem interested in me in that way which ruins my opportunity to lose my virginity


You seem to be a troll.
Original post by Clockrice
You seem to be a troll.


no I am not I grew up in a Muslim family, I promise you I have zero idea on how to interact with men you cannot imagine a life like this cos white and black people are always having sex from the age of 16 '#sorrynotsorry
Original post by Anonymous
I am a female who is a virgin and I cant help but wonder what exactly I am missing out on? Can anyone just tell me so i know what to expect somewhat?


I felt the same way some months ago the way you do right now so I can understand what you feel. Honestly, I believe it is better to wait, not for marriage but for the time you feel ready or for the right person. I’d say don’t do it because everyone is doing it, it’s not a race. Everyone is different and so are their ideas regarding sex. You ought to do what you feel is right for you. Sex is not a big deal, having it is okay and not having it is okay as well. Don’t think so much about it, if you find someone you want to have sex with and someone who wants to have sex with you, then go for it. If not, then focus on other stuff in your life and wait.

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