I feel like I need a man

so someone like me then

Could you describe what your ideal guy is?

Hi, 20 year old turning 21 so thought id weigh in. From my experience, i agree with what you and quite a few other people have said in that you have to take your time and keep trying and focusing on finding someone who you can see yourself with for a bit of time, cause its unlikely to happen without a bit of instigation.... on a more positive note your not the only one im in the exact same position as you and im experiencing the same sort of emotions and feelings as you are at this moment. Take the advice that others in the thread have suggested cause they sound good and if you want more advice/help feel free to pm me! good luck!

I've realised I cant stay inside my house and hope someone comes and talks to me I'll keep a look out! thank you

This myth probably creates a lot of lonely people.

Why would you not be proactive and put yourself in positions to find love? Thus significantly increases your chances of finding it. Rather than waiting on the small miracle that it will wander into your life with no effort on your side to find it.

Is there any aspect of life where you can expect to achieve your aims without putting the work into achieving them? It's a completely counterintuitive thought pattern that is just said to get people to remember that finding a partner should be what you do along side achieving self growth.

For all you know and it's probably likely the mature guy you click with, is on a dating side right now, doing what mature guys do- interacting with people, but you're not doing anything to be found.