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I hope this isnt offensive for this page but even though i am a guy and i am straight (i only had relationships with girls i cant look at guys that way) i still want to have s*x with a guy especially giving head or getting anal and bdsm turns me on (like being submissive and stuff) even if im straight
Where do i go or where can i do that?
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It sounds like your bi my dude! Embrace it just look for that sort of relationship like you would with a female, speak to more people, and find someone with mutual interest)
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"I'm straight but want to get it in the ass"...sure pal XD
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Ladyboys might be your answer. It doesn't even make you gay, everything is female apart from down below.
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Ladyboys might be your answer. It doesn't even make you gay, everything is female apart from down below.
Ladyboy? Wdym by that?
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I hope this isnt offensive for this page but even though i am a guy and i am straight (i only had relationships with girls i cant look at guys that way) i still want to have s*x with a guy especially giving head or getting anal and bdsm turns me on (like being submissive and stuff) even if im straight
Where do i go or where can i do that?
You can't be straight if you want to have sex with another man. You know that, too. Pretending to be straight is a weird fetish.
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You can't be straight if you want to have sex with another man. You know that, too. Pretending to be straight is a weird fetish.
You can be curious cant you? I only sucked the D once when i was younger and i really enjoyed it and i gave a few handjobs and now i have a girlfriend so how am i not straight?
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You can be curious cant you? I only sucked the D once when i was younger and i really enjoyed it and i gave a few handjobs and now i have a girlfriend so how am i not straight?
/yawns. Does pretending to be straight turn you on, or something? I'm genuinely curious. Met so many guys like you on grindr, lol.
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You could just be curious, but I think deep down you know that your not fully straight and it’s fine to be bi, you should just go with what makes you happy
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You can be curious cant you? I only sucked the D once when i was younger and i really enjoyed it and i gave a few handjobs and now i have a girlfriend so how am i not straight?
I think the correct term is Bi-curious; this is when you have a strong or moderate preference for either men or women, but you will "play" (to an extent) with the "other" sex.... but unlike a true bi-sexual, they wouldn't indulge in an emotional relationship with them.

To give you an idea, girls who'll snog each other on a night out are bi-curious IMHO; cause if they were truly straight, they would be repulsed (or at least indifferent) about doing anything remotely sexual with someone of the same sex if they were truly 100% straight.
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I think the correct term is Bi-curious; this is when you have a strong or moderate preference for either men or women, but you will "play" (to an extent) with the "other" sex.... but unlike a true bi-sexual, they wouldn't indulge in an emotional relationship with them.

To give you an idea, girls who'll snog each other on a night out are bi-curious IMHO; cause if they were truly straight, they would be repulsed (or at least indifferent) about doing anything remotely sexual with someone of the same sex if they were truly 100% straight.
Yea, that makes sense. But what do i do about that?
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Yea, that makes sense. But what do i do about that?
Well I consider myself 100% straight, so I'm probably not the best person to accurately advise on how you should play this one. Nonetheless, I can give you my thoughts.

From how I see things (as an outsider looking in, so to speak), the one advantage you have in your position has over someone who is conventionally gay or bi-sexual is that you obviously don't have the trauma of coming out to friends / family and dealing with that potential aftermath and you can keep this aspect of your sexuality completely secret from them if you wanted.

If you decide you want to pursue this, then the obvious place would be to set up a profile on something like Grinder (or similar website / app). The only thing I would stress is that you be completely honest and clear about what you want to get out of it and any restrictions you have. Needless to say, think with your head and not your d1ck when planning on meeting someone and take the usual safety precautions*. Alternatively, you could go to an LGBTQ friendly club (many pubs /clubs have specific nights for this)… can even arrange a trip to another town if you're worried about being seen etc. Another (expensive) option may be to book a male escort (discretion guaranteed (or so the theory goes))

You say you've got a girlfriend now, so I'm not going to actively encourage you to cheat on her... remember cheating is cheating; regardless of who you're doing it with. Before you do self-indulge, you need to think carefully about potential consequences of you cheating... also for some reason girls say the hurt is far more if their boyfriend cheats on them with another man than if it was with a woman. On the other hand, maybe your girlfriend is open minded about the whole thing and may be talked into a dirty threesome LMAO.

* Remember HIV is far higher in the gay scene than in straight people in the world.
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Well I consider myself 100% straight, so I'm probably not the best person to accurately advise on how you should play this one. Nonetheless, I can give you my thoughts.

From how I see things (as an outsider looking in, so to speak), the one advantage you have in your position has over someone who is conventionally gay or bi-sexual is that you obviously don't have the trauma of coming out to friends / family and dealing with that potential aftermath and you can keep this aspect of your sexuality completely secret from them if you wanted.

If you decide you want to pursue this, then the obvious place would be to set up a profile on something like Grinder (or similar website / app). The only thing I would stress is that you be completely honest and clear about what you want to get out of it and any restrictions you have. Needless to say, think with your head and not your d1ck when planning on meeting someone and take the usual safety precautions*. Alternatively, you could go to an LGBTQ friendly club (many pubs /clubs have specific nights for this)… can even arrange a trip to another town if you're worried about being seen etc. Another (expensive) option may be to book a male escort (discretion guaranteed (or so the theory goes))

You say you've got a girlfriend now, so I'm not going to actively encourage you to cheat on her... remember cheating is cheating; regardless of who you're doing it with. Before you do self-indulge, you need to think carefully about potential consequences of you cheating... also for some reason girls say the hurt is far more if their boyfriend cheats on them with another man than if it was with a woman. On the other hand, maybe your girlfriend is open minded about the whole thing and may be talked into a dirty threesome LMAO.

* Remember HIV is far higher in the gay scene than in straight people in the world.
I wouldnt do anything with anyone else while i have a girlfriend, i just cant cheat neither do i want to. You got good points, ill not think about as i go a decent sex life but if in the future i'll be single agaim ill think about experimenting
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Ladyboys might be your answer. It doesn't even make you gay, everything is female apart from down below.
Not even a little bit gay?
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