My boyfriend wants me to get the patch

He is legit like that when it comes to the patch. But when we don’t talk about it he is the nicest person ever

So was my ex, caring and very charming.
Until he stopped getting his own way.
The mask dropped instantly upon hearing the words "no more" and "bye".

For me it began with the ex wanting to control contraception, then information (always needing to know where I was and who with).
Ended when I walked out after discovering from his favourite pair of sex workers that he had std's, secret hobbies and no desire to share this info with me.
Looking back, the signs something was badly wrong in the relationship dynamic were present and had been obvious for almost two years.
I just wouldn't see them- because I was in love and needed him.

So was my ex, caring and very charming.
Until he stopped getting his own way.
The mask dropped instantly upon hearing the words "no more" and "bye".

For me it began with the ex wanting to control contraception, then information (always needing to know where I was and who with).
Ended when I walked out after discovering from his favourite pair of sex workers that he had std's, secret hobbies and no desire to share this info with me.
Looking back, the signs something was badly wrong in the relationship dynamic were present and had been obvious for almost two years.
I just wouldn't see them- because I was in love and needed him.

Good for you. Not wanting to be controlled by him anymore.
You might have loved him but your dignity mattered more and you couldn’t be pushed around or lied to anymore.
Hoping better times will come for you and you find a better man to be with

Thanks
Some of the best guys I know have four paws, a tail and long wet tongues.
They would be perfect but for tendencies towards: audacious sausage roll thefts, muddy ball games and fleeing at high speeds to avoid having their teeth brushed.

He isn’t even talking to me now! He just said on text are you going to the doctors or am I not going to talk to you for a month.

Yes but female condoms arnt at all as effective as male condoms are. Search it up if you dont believe me.

I’ve told him that I don’t want to go on any contraception. I just want my body to be normal.( if you get what I mean ) He says nearly everyday will you go to the doctors and get the patch. I’ve told him loads of times that I don’t want it. He goes in a moody with me all the time about it.

Personally I wouldn’t rely on condoms for prevention from pregnancy, but even if you did find a form of contraception that works for you, he would still have to wear one so that no one gets any STDs.

I tried about 5 or 6 different types/brands of contraception before I found something that worked for me, so maybe talk to your boyfriend about the fact you have different options from the patch & also find out why he wants you to take hormonal contraceptives, and if you do decide to or even just want more information then talk to your doctor/nurse about it too.

The situation you’re is a red flag but I don’t know what your relationship is like, or his intentions/thoughts so I can’t really say anything about it.

I hope everything works out for you!x

I going to talk to him! Hopefully he will understand. Our relationship is amazing. But when it comes to the sex it’s a different story. Thank You

In what way is your relationship amazing? Does he pay anything towards the rent etc?