Sorry in advance for the long post
So me and my friends are going away for New Year, something that was first planned back in August and this is when I've said 'yes, I 100% want to go'.
Fast forward 4 months, and I've had no contact from the organiser about payment and if I still want to go (yes I know I should've asked sooner). So about three weeks ago I ask the person who was in charge about when do you want me to send you the money as I want to go, and I was quite looking forward to it at the time.
They later come back and say that they're really sorry they forgot to put my name down and to add me to the chat. (When I'm in the chat they say they've only recently made the plan in the last day or so but reading back on it it's been planned long before this, and I've had no say in it even though I said I would go)
Now I initially laughed this off and told them not to worry about it, but really what has happened is that it started to bring back to me all of the times that I was left out of things when I was younger (and more recently as well, all by the same people), and you can say I might be overreacting to this but over the last few weeks my head has just been filled with these bad memories and has made me question whether or not I'm really going to enjoy the trip away and if it would be any different if I wasn't going to be there.
I know it may sound a bit strange but I know I'm not, and never have been, entitled to an invite to anything, but at least acknowledge that I'm around. I'm not saying I would've joined them in the past because I could've had other plans but an invite still would've been nice.
All of this just makes me feel like I'm left out all the time by my friends, whereas the other night I had my work's night out and when I was asked if I was going to that, two of my colleagues would not take no for an answer and I said to myself 'ok, so these two actually want me there', and I actually think it was the best night out I've ever had because I didn't feel out of place.
TL;DR: initially forgotten to be included in NY plans even though I said I was going, and don't know if I'm overreacting by thinking about all the times I was left out of things when I was younger