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Should I clean bf penthouse

I’ve never been with a guy who has his own house.

I’m at my boyfriend house 3 times a week sometimes more and sometimes he wants me to help clean his house with him. If he has people over why would I be washing up after them?

Is this normal? Is this him using me as a maid?
Cleaning up after yourself-not unusual.
Cleaning up after him-not okay.
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With him as in for him, or you do it together and chat?
Do you feel like hes using you as a maid? Speak to him about it if you do, he should be able to take care of himself.
Original post by Anonymous
I’ve never been with a guy who has his own house.

I’m at my boyfriend house 3 times a week sometimes more and sometimes he wants me to help clean his house with him. If he has people over why would I be washing up after them?

Is this normal? Is this him using me as a maid?

No, it's not normal, but a surprisingly large number of guys believe that their girlfriends should provide free maid service for them.
You should always be cleaning up ater yourself in someone else's house regardless of how long you're there for. Cleaning up other people's mess is entirely different, though.
(edited 3 years ago)

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