Does he actually like me or does he just want to get in my pants

I started talking to this boy on Snapchat about a month ago and I like him, a lot. We are both each others number one best friends on Snapchat, we talk a lot. He sends me music recommendations and sends my songs he’s been working on on the guitar for me opinion. Our conversations are flirty but he’s never asked for nudes or anything like that, we’ve never really had any sexually oriented conversations. I thought he liked me. Anyway at about 10 last night he asked me to meet him, and I think we all know what that would be for.

I’m just really confused because from the stuff he says to me, it seems like he genuinely liked me but after asking to meet (for the first time) last night - I’m not so sure.

I started talking to this boy on Snapchat about a month ago and I like him, a lot. We are both each others number one best friends on Snapchat, we talk a lot. He sends me music recommendations and sends my songs he’s been working on on the guitar for me opinion. Our conversations are flirty but he’s never asked for nudes or anything like that, we’ve never really had any sexually oriented conversations. I thought he liked me. Anyway at about 10 last night he asked me to meet him, and I think we all know what that would be for.

I’m just really confused because from the stuff he says to me, it seems like he genuinely liked me but after asking to meet (for the first time) last night - I’m not so sure.

wdym not sure he literally didn't do anything sus he seems like he genuinely likes you

I’m not sure I assumed that the reason he asked me to meet last night was because he just wanted to ****

I started talking to this boy on Snapchat about a month ago and I like him, a lot. We are both each others number one best friends on Snapchat, we talk a lot. He sends me music recommendations and sends my songs he’s been working on on the guitar for me opinion. Our conversations are flirty but he’s never asked for nudes or anything like that, we’ve never really had any sexually oriented conversations. I thought he liked me. Anyway at about 10 last night he asked me to meet him, and I think we all know what that would be for.

I’m just really confused because from the stuff he says to me, it seems like he genuinely liked me but after asking to meet (for the first time) last night - I’m not so sure.

You guys have been talking for a month and he already wants to meet you? It’s not a red flag maybe he genuinely wants to meet you? If it was a few days after then that would be a red flag. This online thing is really risky because you never know someones real intentions and you can get attached easily speaking from experience. How old are you btw???

Don’t overthink or let your emotions control your actions. Use your head and not your heart to think because your heart can be deceitful. also maybe slow down the pace because you guys are still in the talking stage so when or if you do date they’ll be nothing for you to talk about lol. If he doesn’t ask you for nudes he’s a genuine guy. Guys are natural flirts. Even if he does want sex that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t like you. It means he likes you and he wants sex bcuz if he didn’t like you why would he want sex??? Anyway I’m sure that those are not his intentions but even if they are cut your losses and move along with your life lol. It’s a month of time you won’t get back but it’s not the end of the world. Agin speaking from experience.

I hope that helped x
Anything else feel free to PM or quote me x

Also why are you speaking to him at 10pm? Isn’t that a bit late? Maybe you should set boundaries.

I started talking to this boy on Snapchat about a month ago and I like him, a lot. We are both each others number one best friends on Snapchat, we talk a lot. He sends me music recommendations and sends my songs he’s been working on on the guitar for me opinion. Our conversations are flirty but he’s never asked for nudes or anything like that, we’ve never really had any sexually oriented conversations. I thought he liked me. Anyway at about 10 last night he asked me to meet him, and I think we all know what that would be for.

I’m just really confused because from the stuff he says to me, it seems like he genuinely liked me but after asking to meet (for the first time) last night - I’m not so sure.

What no if anything 10 pm is early normaly ppl pull all nighters together like they speak up to like 2 am

also wdym "already" it's been a full month of getting to know each other idk about you but I make my friends within a week or so

Ok but I’m speaking from experience not about other ppl I don’t care about other ppl lol

I’m replying to the original poster if you have a issue don’t quote me. Read what I said again bcuz you’re clearly not understanding. They flirt but they’re friends. I said set boundaries and I said a month isn’t that bad so read the full post before you quote me

I did and you seemed to be surprised by the fact they want to meet after a month

moreover "Also why are you speaking to him at 10pm?" again surprised

You guys have been talking for a month and he already wants to meet you? It’s not a red flag maybe he genuinely wants to meet you? If it was a few days after then that would be a red flag. This online thing is really risky because you never know someones real intentions and you can get attached easily speaking from experience. How old are you btw???

Don’t overthink or let your emotions control your actions. Use your head and not your heart to think because your heart can be deceitful. also maybe slow down the pace because you guys are still in the talking stage so when or if you do date they’ll be nothing for you to talk about lol. If he doesn’t ask you for nudes he’s a genuine guy. Guys are natural flirts. Even if he does want sex that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t like you. It means he likes you and he wants sex bcuz if he didn’t like you why would he want sex??? Anyway I’m sure that those are not his intentions but even if they are cut your losses and move along with your life lol. It’s a month of time you won’t get back but it’s not the end of the world. Agin speaking from experience.

I hope that helped x
Anything else feel free to PM or quote me x

Also why are you speaking to him at 10pm? Isn’t that a bit late? Maybe you should set boundaries.

We are both 17, he can drive though so we wouldn’t be completely in public we would be in his car

Ok continue being surprised lol I’ve already said I’m speaking from experience