how can I tell if my co worker is attracted to me? he's male im femaleWatch
Being nice to you
Asking you out for coffee
Playing with their hair,
Sat towards you with their legs open is a good one, shows openess towards you and hes comfortable.
You mirror his movements, and hold his gaze back and smile. As time goes on, then ask him out
we don't get to see each other much because we work in different departments but when he has to contact me for something he seems to want to keep the conversion going.. but he hasn't asked anything about me really. like he doesn't go out of his way to find out more about me? but I get the impression he likes to talk to me but im not sure if he just likes talking to me or. he finds me attractive. I did notice him looking at my lower body when we talking the other day, he kept on glancing downward
by flirting you can test for receptibility without putting yourself all the way out there, and if you are getting nothing back, you know that he's not interested.
I remember doing that with a woman at one of my work places some years back. she had shown no signs of interest in me prior, but i was interested in her. i initiated flirting and was getting nothing back at all. in fact she started to seem a bit awkward and her friend came in to "rescue" her lmao.
after that it was obvious she wasn't interested so i decided to not ask her out and pretty much never spoke to her again lol.
do i regret it? no
suffering a bit of awkwardness when someone doesn't flirt back is far better than suffering a full blown rejection or suffering with that feeling of regret of not doing anything as you don't know if she would have liked you back if you had shown interest.