So I’m 24 and my bf is 34 we’ve been together 2 years and we have a good settled relationship. I see him most weekends he sees his kids most weekends however they don’t stay over he sees them for the day on a Saturday then comes to get me for the weekend as we live an hour away from eecwhother.
I’ve never met his 3 kids and I don’t want to anytime soon. I want to get married in 5 years. I don’t think people should meet children until getting married. He and the babymum don’t speak. However he gets long with his kids grandma who he does a lot for.
I don’t understand but whenever his grandma needs a lift, needs to go airport or grocery shopping she calls my bf to come pick her or help her. I don’t understand why the babymum can’t do this stuff for her mum instead of having her babydad who she don’t speak to do this. I asked him and he said if the babymum was going to do it the grandma wouldn’t call him. I mean she hasn’t got an excuse it’s her mother she should help she also drives so I’m confused. One time I was with him and the grandma asked him to book her an Uber somewhere( she’s older and doesn’t use phones well) and he did for £40 and he said he helps the grandma because she does alot for his kids.
This puts me off and my family are so not like this they would never call him if he was my babydad who I don’t talk to.
Anyways what do I do and how should I feel about this? Isit normal the way I feel