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Had sex for the first time. How can I tell if she enjoyed it too?
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I've heard that first times with a new date/partner are almost always awkward. I didn't think so.
I always ask what they like, how they like it, and to tell me if it hurts. Not all the time, obviously, but just to know that I want it to be mutual.
How can I tell if she liked it like I did?
I always ask what they like, how they like it, and to tell me if it hurts. Not all the time, obviously, but just to know that I want it to be mutual.
How can I tell if she liked it like I did?
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Ask her
Ask her
(Original post by gracieee16)
ye like someone said above, ask her. how are we supposed to know?
ye like someone said above, ask her. how are we supposed to know?
Is it that hard to ask?
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I imagine you're women, or at least men with experience. What are the physical cues that a woman is enjoying the sex?
Is it that hard to ask?
I imagine you're women, or at least men with experience. What are the physical cues that a woman is enjoying the sex?
Is it that hard to ask?
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(Original post by gracieee16)
ive never had sex so i wouldnt know
ive never had sex so i wouldnt know
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Ah, well that's explains it.
Ah, well that's explains it.
i didn't even show signs of hurt cos you just keep it to yourself. so, she could have genuinely liked it or she could've been in agony. you'll never know until u ask...
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(Original post by gracieee16)
but ive been fingered twice... and it killed sm.
i didn't even show signs of hurt cos you just keep it to yourself. so, she could have genuinely liked it or she could've been in agony. you'll never know until u ask...
but ive been fingered twice... and it killed sm.
i didn't even show signs of hurt cos you just keep it to yourself. so, she could have genuinely liked it or she could've been in agony. you'll never know until u ask...
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What are the physical cues that a woman is enjoying the sex?
What are the physical cues that a woman is enjoying the sex?
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Probably because whoever was fingering you had no idea what they were doing. That's a shame.
Probably because whoever was fingering you had no idea what they were doing. That's a shame.
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What are the physical cues that a woman is enjoying the sex?
What are the physical cues that a woman is enjoying the sex?
Many women fake it when in reality they feel either discomfort or nothing at all.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I've heard that first times with a new date/partner are almost always awkward. I didn't think so.
I always ask what they like, how they like it, and to tell me if it hurts. Not all the time, obviously, but just to know that I want it to be mutual.
How can I tell if she liked it like I did?
I've heard that first times with a new date/partner are almost always awkward. I didn't think so.
I always ask what they like, how they like it, and to tell me if it hurts. Not all the time, obviously, but just to know that I want it to be mutual.
How can I tell if she liked it like I did?
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You need more than physical cues to confirm that.
Many women fake it when in reality they feel either discomfort or nothing at all.
You need more than physical cues to confirm that.
Many women fake it when in reality they feel either discomfort or nothing at all.
I remember reading (I've not pulled the paper or done a full critique, just read in pop science) something like only 1 in 10 women with a ONS have an orgasm.
ASK HER.
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(Original post by Apachecow)
Best answer so far. The key to good sex/sexual contact is communication. Very easy for a woman to fake. Almost always awkward the first time. Realistically if she wants to do it again it was better than awful. Go in with low expectations with a new partner and work from there.
I remember reading (I've not pulled the paper or done a full critique, just read in pop science) something like only 1 in 10 women with a ONS have an orgasm.
ASK HER.
Best answer so far. The key to good sex/sexual contact is communication. Very easy for a woman to fake. Almost always awkward the first time. Realistically if she wants to do it again it was better than awful. Go in with low expectations with a new partner and work from there.
I remember reading (I've not pulled the paper or done a full critique, just read in pop science) something like only 1 in 10 women with a ONS have an orgasm.
ASK HER.
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(Original post by black tea)
sex isn't just about having an orgasm though
sex isn't just about having an orgasm though
Tell me about 'good' sex, without orgasms. Not being a D1ck, curious.
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(Original post by Apachecow)
Tell me about 'good' sex, without orgasms. Not being a D1ck, curious.
Tell me about 'good' sex, without orgasms. Not being a D1ck, curious.
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(Original post by black tea)
What's there to tell? There is more to sex than just the purely mechanical bit.
What's there to tell? There is more to sex than just the purely mechanical bit.
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(Original post by Scotney)
See if she wants to go for round two!
See if she wants to go for round two!
(Original post by RichPiana)
Did she go to sleep after or ask for round 2?
Did she go to sleep after or ask for round 2?
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