I want to get away from my father.

Also when I order myself food, he says stuff like “can you eat anymore” , “can you fit anymore” , “you will eat yourself to death”

Youre not a bad person - most people have felt these feelings towards their parents - dont worry it is completely normal.

In ur situation it seems even more justified - being called a c*nt and unfairly taking your money is absolutely unacceptable - and verbal abuse, is a type of abuse so you can talk to someone about this, he seems to be making u feel pretty bad about things - maybe talk to someone in a position of trust/helpline if you feel like ur being emotionally abused.

Feel free also to pm me if u ever need to talk to someone u dont know - I know this can help quite a lot.

Hope this helps
Mads

And this is definite emotional abuse, you can call a helpline about this, parents shouldn't ever make their kids feel insecure about their bodies/eating habits - god know we're all insecure enough as it is

Mads

Hey yep, it is affecting me but do you think when I turn 18 should I cut contact with him and rent my own home ( i will have the funds ) He is really getting on my nerves . He is also a mr Know it all and he hates me i just know it

Thank you i will message you when im available thanks so much !!

Your feelings are justified, and it's understandable to feel angry and frustrated with someone who treats you poorly. It's not okay for your stepfather to shout, swear, and verbally abuse you, and it's also not okay for him to borrow money and not pay it back. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and safety. Have you talked to your mother about how you feel? It might be helpful to have a calm and honest conversation with her about how your stepfather's behavior is affecting you. It's also important to remember that wishing someone to die is not a healthy or productive way to deal with the situation. Consider reaching out to a trusted adult or counselor for support and guidance on how to navigate this difficult situation.