Hi.
I am in a relationship with my boyfriend. He is my first love, a love I have never ever felt before.
Let me prefice this by saying , when we’re good we have the best relationship ever, it’s amazing. However , his previous relationship was very difficult and so he has insecurities etc, moreover he suffers with anger problems.
There have been times before where he has gotten angry, called me nasty things and even punched the bed. He has threatened to break up with me which obviously puts me through a lot of stress, and then he takes me back. I told him the last time we had a fight and he got angry and called me some vile things, if you ever do that again I am going to have to walk away, no matter how I feel about you.
I had a very special day on Tuesday, a day I will never get back, and he got drunk on the night out after and got angry and ended up shoving me, but just a little one, he walked up to me shoved me and smashed a glass. My friend had to separate us. I was just shocked so didn’t say anything back
He has blamed it on the alcohol and promises nothing like that will ever happen again, very apologetic etc.
I’ve been heart broken since it happened, not only did he ruin a day I will never get back, but a person I trusted most did something I never thought he would do. I’ve told him this has ruined everything , due to my friends who he once had amazing relationships with, no longer want to see him, and I’ve yet to tell my parents but I know they will go mad.
I’m just looking for advice really. If anyone has been in similar situations and how they handled it, if they have stayed with someone who has made a mistake and if it worked out, or how to deal with a heart wrenching break up